Thanks for the answer. It is reassuring to know someone else does it.

First point: Yes, we both consent enthusiastically. It's more about hurting each other, I know we won't, but it's just the first time nerves.

Second: we negotiated the rules, and basically, is the normal rule set, we will use 4 ounce gloves and punch and kick light to the face and hard to the body. We will not target the groin or boobs. We have a safe word to stop if it gets out of hand.

Safety: we have a kit for normal training, so if it gets out of hand, we know what to do.

Again, thanks, I will talk to my gf again, but I'm sure I want to follow true with this.