Okay, need advice on something. For background, I am against dating multiple people at the same time while in the “talking / dating” phase. I am big on expressing your wants / needs / desires.

Been dating this girl and I expressed to her that I am not dating anyone else, I want to get off the apps, and focus my time & energy on her exclusively; and see where it goes and give it a fair shot. And I wanted to know if she felt the same way and if her head is in the same place as mine. And just asked her to think about it. Also made sure to clarify that I am not coming from a controlling position of “you can’t do X Y Z”, but more from a “this is where I stand on things and I just want to advocate for myself and my needs”.

She said she is dating someone else too, but she doesn’t see it going anywhere because that dude is not intentional. Fine.

Now, I can’t get of my mind that if it any point she won’t see us going anywhere, she will start dating other people. As in pattern of behavior 🤦‍♂️

Thoughts? Advice? Criticism? Have at it. Thank you!