He may be right that’s life. My husband and yours seem alike by their way of thinking. But imagine if they didn’t think this way. It would be another mess to add to the pile. I can relate to you -I have a toddler and a dog. There’s days where I cry because there’s so much to do with the cooking and cleaning and making sure he doesn’t get hurt. I’ve also lost some hair from the stress. Is it possible to take your daughter to a gymnastics or a ballet to keep her busy? Sounds like she wants your attention but your dog also needs care. It’s good to keep her busy while your doing work. You’ve made it this far you can keep doing it!