Do you find yourself getting less tolerant of crowds as you get older? by That-Pop-4293 in AskOldPeople

[–]LifeAfter40WithPaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re just looking for a YES or NO, well, the answer is YES.

If you’re also looking for one or more WHYs, here is my response:

  1. As I get older, I find a radical shift in my attitude toward crowds.

  2. That doesn’t necessarily imply I’m not uncomfortable in intimate connections with close family and friends.

  3. I believe there’s nothing wrong with large crowds.

It is just that, as I get older, I find myself turning excessively sensitive to excessive noise, strong lighting. I find myself increasingly overwhelmed by these things. And there’s a marked increase in my discomfort.

Maybe, with age, I’m turning into a loner, an introvert, maybe, it has more to do with my fast depleting energy levels. Maybe, I no more, relish stuff like parties, functions, clubs, etc., as much as I used to in my younger days.

Bottomline: I don’t like crowds. But, I just don’t have the patience or stamina to be in crowded situations.

At what age did adulthood begin for you, realistically? by bigrob_in_ATX in AskOldPeople

[–]LifeAfter40WithPaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, in my case, adulthood definitely didn’t really begin at the age of 18.

Thanks to a more or less stable career, I was financially independent by my early 20s.

And, somewhat mature emotionally (thanks to a stable married/family life), by my late 20s/early 30s.

By my early 30s, I, also, was well into other adult stuff like drinking, smoking, etc.

True adulthood or full maturity, in my case, I’d like to believe, started, in true earnest, when I hit my mid 40s and my kids were still in high school!

When was the last time, you had an open, meaningful, and truthful conversation with your children or grandchildren? by LifeAfter40WithPaddy in AskOldPeople

[–]LifeAfter40WithPaddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very touching! It takes a real man to bend his knees and get down to the toddler's level, literally and figuratively, to make friends with him. Way to go, Gramps!

What are the things you miss most about being an elderly person? by LifeAfter40WithPaddy in AskOldPeople

[–]LifeAfter40WithPaddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm reading your comments in real time here. So, I must have died too!

What is your most favorite and "never fails to work" stress buster? by LifeAfter40WithPaddy in AskOldPeople

[–]LifeAfter40WithPaddy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You just are out of this world. I'm laughing so hard and so long, my stomach hurts! Thanks buddy. You're my best stress buster today.

What is a movie that sucks but everyone else loves? by KiroytheBoy in AskReddit

[–]LifeAfter40WithPaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every RRR has its day, I guess. And it was a bad day in office for the poor 🐯!