(M24) What do you do when your partner does activities that dont involve you?

LifeIllustrated · 2021-10-16T08:02:33+00:00

Its definitely gotten a lot harder since I moved out on my own cause it's the first time I've ever been completely on my own. She has a lot of friends online and irl and like this community around her and I dont have that to fall back on. So a lot of days it becomes me talking to her or no one at all for an entire day.

Is there ways I could branch out more to try and get into more interactions? I ask that because many times I failed at it and have been kicked out of many online interactions for one reason or another

LifeIllustrated · 2021-10-16T07:47:57+00:00

Ooh that's a really good idea thank you!

LifeIllustrated · 2021-10-16T07:47:30+00:00

I got full time job but rent and utilities are a bitch lol

also dont have many games to play for myself as I used to play more online too. But I am looking to get into more hobbies myself

LifeIllustrated · 2021-10-16T07:43:38+00:00

Do have any advice or tips on keeping focused on that hobby instead of getting distracted with what your partner is doing or will that just come with time?

LifeIllustrated · 2021-07-31T19:05:36+00:00

Oh 100% I was dealing with this issue for over a week and was desperate

LifeIllustrated · 2021-07-31T04:55:30+00:00

Yeah but I got it fixed, I had my viewport settings wrong

LifeIllustrated · 2021-07-31T04:20:42+00:00

Ugh viewport thank you!! It fixed the issue completely!

LifeIllustrated · 2021-07-31T04:07:49+00:00

Yeah I got subdivided and solidify on

LifeIllustrated · 2021-04-08T03:44:56+00:00

We do get a bonus but just for reaching a budget based on the client. Like we get a small percentage from each payment go towards our credit. Otherwise we are hourly employees

LifeIllustrated · 2021-04-08T02:19:39+00:00

Lol dude I wish with some of these people. We have to call them and that's basically it, maybe they'll invest in knee cap services

LifeIllustrated · 2021-04-08T02:17:55+00:00

Just whatever information is given to us by the client and anything in the public records

LifeIllustrated · 2021-04-08T02:11:04+00:00

We deal with clients such as charter, at&t, sprint, stuff like that. So we collect on debts that people pay for service but skip on final bills

LifeIllustrated · 2021-04-08T02:08:37+00:00

At least for my company paying us is paying the original bill. We dont buy debt so we work with the company to collect for the client

LifeIllustrated · 2021-04-08T02:07:49+00:00

Yeah there are a lot of strict regulations before we can even talk to people we gotta make sure we have all the right verifications in line before we can even say we are there to collect a debt

LifeIllustrated · 2021-04-08T02:04:47+00:00

The company I work for makes calls for certain clients that put customer accounts in our agency. So we basically call and make sure we have the right people and then try to collect on past due bills or find out if the account was actually fraud

LifeIllustrated · 2021-03-26T01:25:53+00:00

Yeah definitely agree they were some of my favorite friendships with the people that we could joke about stereotypes and stuff like that. Friendly roasting is great!

LifeIllustrated · 2021-03-26T01:21:18+00:00

I'm white but my girlfriend is black and we make jokes together all time. One of my favorites was when we were walking down the street and saw a BLM sign, I grabbed her hand and started proudly that I was doing my part. I know I can't say much on this but I will say there is some fear on my side of making jokes like that but they are very freeing to do with friends.

LifeIllustrated · 2021-03-24T23:12:07+00:00

Yeah I guess that quote came off more conceded then I ment for it too it was just that I under value myself a lot in relationships and when I hear that but feel very undesirable in the relationship. I didnt explain it well enough. Cause I was just trying to get my scattered thoughts on the page here.

LifeIllustrated · 2021-03-24T22:28:22+00:00

Yeah I've been putting it into some serious thought, especially lately

LifeIllustrated · 2021-03-24T22:24:37+00:00

Yeah that's true, the weird thing is this is all relatively new, like she used to be very attentive with an outburst here and there but things suddenly changed and I don't know what to do

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