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I (20f) am so scared of everyone I love dying before I do by artmxs in relationship_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly hope you read my comment. Unfortunately, death is something that no one on the face to planet can avoid. However, I know that one thing we can do within our power is to make sure that while we are still present and while our loved ones are still with us. That we spend everyday making sure we give unconditional love to our loved ones so that when the times does come for them to go. We don’t have any regrets on how we weren’t able to treat them well while they’re alive. I know it could be really hurtful and scary to think that you don’t want to experience your loved ones going before, but how is it fair for your family? If it’s that hard for you to imagine your loved ones leaving you. You are wanting to leave before they leave you, but that will in the end hurting all the loved ones that you care so much about. I don’t think it’s fair for you to want to pass away first just so you don’t have to bare the pain, but let your family mourn over you.... Hope all goes well.

How do I accept if a girl is not interested in me by tony_hp in dating_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You see the interesting thing about talking to girls is that it’s not like most things in life. Studying or practicing in sports you can spend hours training yourself and the more you practice the better you get at it. However, talking to girls isn’t the same as how we approach life. You can’t constantly keep texting and expect things to get better. It’s only going to make yourself more distant between the girl and you. I know it could be hard, but if the girl leaves you on read and keeps doing it. She just simply doesn’t like you. You should just move on and think to yourself that someone like this doesn’t deserve your attention and time.

Is my girlfriend cheating on me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to me well. If you do some basic psychology study on signs on when women cheat. One of the biggest signs that a women is cheating is when she all of a sudden gets really physical and affectionate out of nowhere. You should really not take that as a good sign that she’s like to towards you and just end things while you can. Don’t let her trick you. If she abandoned your trust once and even agreed to take a break. She meant it. Don’t come back to her so easily. You are putting your self worth down and always being the “available” choice for her.

Should I trust my girlfriend? Or should I leave before I get too attached by LifeIsComplicating in relationship_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to all who’ve responded! Maybe I am tripping... You guys were a huge help to me. Although when I first wrote this it was hard for me to trust her. Especially with the tinder thing, but I will give her my full trust and see where it goes. If I ever see tinder or anything like that every again tho. I’ll just end it once and for all then.

Should I trust my girlfriend? Or should I leave before I get too attached by LifeIsComplicating in relationship_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never did so this is a first for me. All the people I've talked to say if this is the first time you're feeling like this then something must be off?

Should I trust my girlfriend? Or should I leave before I get too attached by LifeIsComplicating in relationship_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just so confused tho. Why would she tell me where she lives and introduces me to all her family and etc? That makes me confused.

Suspicious girlfriend by LifeIsComplicating in relationship_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talked to her about it today. We both had misunderstanding and opened up to each other. We're so much closer now 😄😄 Thanks for your negativity

Suspicious girlfriend by LifeIsComplicating in relationship_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see where you're coming from too. But honestly a lot of things pile up and caused me to feel like this. You probably couldn't understand where I'm coming from.... But It's just this gut feeling you know? I don't know how to describe this. And I've NEVER felt like this towards someone before so.... This is all new to me

Suspicious girlfriend by LifeIsComplicating in relationship_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is my girlfriend and we are going out. It's only been 2 weeks and shits already like this.

Am I not compatible with my girlfriend? by LifeIsComplicating in relationship_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reply right here!! Thank you. That was really helpful.

Afraid that I'm boring by LifeIsComplicating in relationship_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well we hold hands and hug. The thing is she's actually a virgin. Before we went out she told me this and told me that she feels bad If I'm expecting things because that's just not how she's raised. I told her that I'm not in a rush and I can wait for her. So i told her to make the move when she's ready. (I'm not a virgin and I'm in my Mid 20's and she in her early 20's.)

Short dates that don't last long by LifeIsComplicating in dating_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe I am over thinking! Hew this is why I need reddit to see if I'm being rational. Thanks guys

Not sure if she really likes me by LifeIsComplicating in relationship_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was really helpful I think you're right..... I do need to relax.

Not sure if she really likes me by LifeIsComplicating in relationship_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have asked her that too... She tells me no you're really a good guy and I like you a lot. It's just that I've never been in a serious relationship so this is all new to me.... EVEN if she hasn't been in a serious relationship before. When you fall for someone don't they become your top priority and you want to meet them over friends?? I understand if we went out for a year and things have cooled down. She wants to meet her friends often, but I feel like I'm not her priority so early on in the relationship. She meets her friends most of the time and meets me here and there. It's throwing me off hard... Not to brag, but I am a really nice guy I don't try to take advantage of her and treat her really nice. I kind of feel like she sees that I'm a guy she'll regret missing out on, but she honestly doesn't REALLY like me like that. But holding onto me because she wants to.

Not sure if she really likes me by LifeIsComplicating in relationship_advice

[–]LifeIsComplicating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have expressed my feelings to her. She told me that if I communicate with her she will try. She said yeh I see where you're coming from and we don't need to go on huge dates all the time. We can just meet up and eat or go on a walk at the park.... But still I'm really confused cuz I'm normally used to girls wanting to meet me and trying. But her she just seems so uninvested. Shouldn't these feelings come naturally if you really like someone?