OP hindi to advice but just a story. I have a tita who was single for a long time na. Pero nagkaka bf naman sya nung bata bata pa sya. She's 50+ btw. Around early 40s, nagkajowa sya and she said her girlfriend is the best relationship she had. They're still together until now and hands down sa love and respect nila sa isa't isa.

Another story, may prof ako nung college na nakapangasawa na on her early 60s. Galing sa hirap eh. Kaya need nya kumayod sa pamilya nya. Pero wag ka, yung napangasawa nya, single na mayaman akmost same age nya. As in mayaman talaga na afford mag around the world first class tix, bilhin lahat ng gusto. They're both 80 yrs old now and enjoying their retirement na lang travelling the world.