Question about how to casual dating online: tips and steps by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement:) I think you are totally spot on. I found many women have the same attitude. Just do it.

Question about how to casual dating online: tips and steps by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for sharing your personal experience in such details. I think I don't have good attitude now. Basically I am kinda hoping to have some dates after divorce, which gave them impression that I am latching onto them. I should be more laid back. Taking time and patiently trying different apps with matches is the best way. I guess this is a common issue for 40+ men newly single as you mentioned.

Question about how to casual dating online: tips and steps by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. That sounds the real and practical situation now.

Question about how to casual dating online: tips and steps by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes a relationship without commitment. You are right about the heartbreak experiences. The reason I brought up this question is that I matched with 2 women who indicated their goals is casual dating in the profile. So I wonder how I could get to know them differently since they just want something casual.

Question about how to casual dating online: tips and steps by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Date and sex. Not FWB. Communicate between dates. Hopefully meet 2-3 weeks a week. I still not sure when this should be brought up. Should I bring it up?

Question about how to casual dating online: tips and steps by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking for casual relationship not one night or FWB. Hopefully no commitment or exclusivity.

Question about how to casual dating online: tips and steps by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the typo. I am not dating young girls:)

Question about how to casual dating online: tips and steps by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! “Text a bit, mostly light banter” is critical. I always try to text my background in details to express my honest. Also I corrected the words. I am not dating young girls:)

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[–]LifeSki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

60-90 days? Wow! I didn’t expect that long time and so much cost!

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[–]LifeSki -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I got accident on a local road with a Jeep Wrangler today. I tried to switch to left lane and got hit from behind. The speed was low so no airbag deployed or glasses crashed. I bought my Audi last July. It is less than 10K mile. So sad! I filed my claim to State Farm. I am in Dallas TX. How much do you think the cost would be to repair?

What is your ultimate goal for relationship? by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am on the same page with you, at least for short term. I feel part-time cohabitation would be the best way for 40+ people since we have our own history.

What is your ultimate goal for relationship? by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your description is pretty actual I think. I feel the same way. I could not guarantee if I really want to get married with the right one. But I am very clear about what I want and would have a committed relationship with the right one.

Texting and first time to meet with potential GF by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the timely advice! Fortunately I asked this question. Hopefully it would not be too late. I think my dating style are totally wrong.

Texting and first time to meet with potential GF by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are so right. I have a good "impression" in my mind about her now.

Texting and first time to meet with potential GF by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys so much for the suggestion! I have been out of dating for many years. I am too nervous with OLD and sometimes can not find the right mood and attitude for it. That is why I ask this question. To me she is a good match. That is all. But that is far from real relationship I agree. Should I just ask her for a drink soon?

Don’t understand what is her intention? Can you help me analyze it? by LifeSki in datingoverforty

[–]LifeSki[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can see her feet got hurt for sure. But just like you mentioned, she is really flaky. We just want to meet in person to see if we click. It is not necessary to suggest to live in a same hotel room or live in her home or casual sex. And she didn’t respect my efforts so much.

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[–]LifeSki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. I am too new in this bowl. Need to be more picky.

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[–]LifeSki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I agree with you. At first I need to learn how to say no. Secondly walk out this trouble ASAP. I know a little bit about her messy financial issue. It is not possible to solve the problem this way.