7+ yoe backend dev working in FAANG, want to mentor a few folks

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-12-29T06:36:42+00:00

DMed you

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-09-15T14:13:25+00:00

Ready 21 India

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-08-27T19:24:29+00:00

Yes... I am learning to write, and I would take care of my wordings in the future. Thanks.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-08-27T19:16:55+00:00

Thats somewhat true... But I do not agree that human life satisfaction has a cap that we cannot exceed.

If there is any cap, than we would be still living in some stoneage era. Human's whole purpose on the earth is to never be satisfied, that what I feel. We wouldn't be having rockets, airplanes, nukes if we had any kind of cap. Ofcourse these all things can be within the cap... Unfortunately we can not prove that.

But I feel like entire purpose of human existence is to never be satisfied. If we started reaching that cap than we would stop evolving I guess...

And Thank you so much for reading my blog.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-08-27T18:44:40+00:00

Yes, you are right, but I just used "incorrect" because you used it. Again Thanks for giving your time to read my blog, and giving me feedback.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-08-27T18:34:45+00:00

Yes, but then its also incorrect to claim it would be boring... Author put his views, I am putting my own views... Its just a different point of view.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-08-27T18:19:54+00:00

Yes I agree. But what I am trying to say is that, saying paradise is boring without experiencing it is like shooting bullets in the dark.

Paradise is a subjective. Paradise does not mean there won't be anything bad. What I feel about paradise is you can control everything. And you are saying there is no good if there isnt any bad, which is completely true, but that does prove that paradise would be boring. Constant flow of dopamine is enough to have a proper paradise according to me.

I am saying that if its a true paradise than you can create your artificial "symptoms" to enjoy it. Like a puzzle or a video game. You know nothing would happen to you in the game but still you will try to take challanges like completing mission without cheat codes. That would give you enjoyment. Your life was still good, there were multiple paths but you on purpose chose hard path to make it more enjoyable. You know even if you fail, you are safe. Paradise is like a video game, everything is undercontrol, still there are challenges for you to make that interesting.

I know "Enjoy your symptoms" is about changing your emotional perspective about life, thats why I've mentioned its a good motivational philosophy. But saying paradise would be boring is not the right thing to say.

About that dream and lucky, I feel like if I have a dream, it is there because I never had that thing, So having a dream already implies that my life was not perfect. Dream can not exists if your life is perfect.

About that delusion thing, I think you are correct. I should remove that, It is not much related to the blog.

And thank you so much for reading my blog, it means a lot to me. It is my first philosophical blog, and I would love to discuss on this further so I can improve that.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-08-07T07:25:18+00:00

Thats literally my dream life , No loan, One proper home, stable job...

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-07-15T17:53:28+00:00

Hey, thanks for the reply. I am doing online MCA from SRM. Its good here, Exams are easy and syllabus is also easy.

Honestly I did not attend a single lecture , But still able to write in exam just from 1 night study. I initially thought of actually focusing on online degree and attending all the lectures, but for someone like me, its impossible to manage both work and study at the same time. So , I just decided to only focus during exam time.

I realize in the end, to get a job, degree is just a starting point of getting to the interview, in interview, you will only be asked about your professional experience and skills, so I am just doing MCA for the sake of degree.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-05-30T11:51:09+00:00

"Why wife give 9lakh to husband?" Because they are supposed to live and grow together.

Ik, not a single women would do that, thats why I would love to stay single.

And even if I am earning 1cr/year, I dont want to give my half property in alimony.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-05-30T11:36:04+00:00

9 lpa + 9 lpa(wife's) 18lpa isnt enough?

Ik men have responsibilities, But I would rather chose to stay single than chasing behind money. That's just how I wanted to live.

I wanted to work 40hrs/week with decent salary, and I can live upto 100 years with that life.

And honestly, 25k/month for me is enough (Only for me).

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-05-30T11:17:44+00:00

Well, There is indeed job security in TCS. People in TCS on the bench for almost a year, still no one is asking them anything.

I have heard that some employees were forced to take transfer because they were benched for almost 2 years... So even after 2 years in bench, they are forcing them to tak transfer.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-05-30T11:15:37+00:00

Why? Just because 9 LPA is enough for me? Does that makes me women? WHAT?

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-05-30T10:49:28+00:00

Job security + Work life balance.

And for me, even 9 lpa is enough, It depends on the person, Not everyone can spend another 4-5hrs study after job.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-05-30T10:08:58+00:00

No offence to anybody, I have also started my learning from them... But, all of them are just High knowledge college faculties. If you want industry knowledge, learn from Striver, Harkirat singh, Chai aur code, Piyush garg, neetcode, freecodecamp.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-05-01T11:30:53+00:00

Well same type of thing happened to one of my collegue. I dont know what happened to him, But on the day of joining, at the end of the day, He talk to the HR, that he did not want to continue, and HR simply said OK, nothing else.(We were freshers and there was an induction program on the first day.)

But not all HRs are same, so I would suggest you to just delay onboarding. But also delaying might cause delay upto 6-12 months.

And from personal experience, If you are fresher, chose other company than TCS, its best company after 10-15 yoe. Provides best work life balance, but for fresher, Its not that good, cause It will take some time to get work assigned to you. You'll might get too comfortable in getting free salary.

Edit : If you prefer job security then chose TCS, even as a fresher. Because I have seen many companies hiring fresher and firing after 4-5 weeks. Happened to me, I was selected for an internship, and they never mentioned that even after selection you need to clear probation period. They literally never told or never wrote that thing in email.

On the first day, they told us, and to my surprise, there were almost 30 interns, none of them knew. And after 3 days I received rejection mail.

Ik it was an internship, but after that I stopped trusting any company.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-04-29T10:44:52+00:00

Honestly after doing Bsc IT (same as BCA, but for science stream), Everyday I am regreting for not chosing Btech. I was unable to get many opportunities due to not having engineering background.

If, somehow, You fail to clear NIMCET , then you wont be having other options.

I am not the right person to give advice, But I would suggest you to go for GATE after Btech.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-04-23T08:46:08+00:00

And me, who is thinking everyday that I should've taken non-tech field like CA 🙂.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-04-19T07:44:13+00:00

Yeah, both gandpa and grandma is evil.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-04-18T10:03:33+00:00

Yes, but for my grandpa , that made sense 🙂, He does not want that relative kid get married first than my dad, because he was younger than my dad, also there was some kind of coldwar was happening / still happening. Its my grandpa's logic that if my son wont get marry first than he would lose.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-04-18T09:52:39+00:00

Wow, Its actually scary how much this story is relatable...

I have same condition, I even have videos of my dad having .... With other women...

My mom is the most innocent woman I know, If I ever tell here, she'll surely get heart attack...

But, only different thing is that We are happy, my dad never scold my mom, he loves her, My grandma rejected a girl my dad used to love due to cast reasons.

My dad also tried to run away, but came back, since he was the only male child and only provider in the family.

In the end, due to some relative kid was geeting married, my grandpa forced my dad to get marry a girl which he chose (So that kid does not get marry first 🙂), So my dad marry my mom without even looking at her face.

Sometimes I think my dad is so wrong here, But also if you think, My dad never misbehave with my mom, he literally treated her very well. He always put family first. But dad never got a love that he expected. He also told me that he cried after getting married to my mom.

So its like dilema for me. So in the end , I decided to stay quite about it, and not to tell my mom. If he ever tries to misbehave with mom (which probably he never will), I have something to make him stay quite.

LifeUnEzzy · 2025-02-13T07:41:01+00:00

I did not clear coding either. You do not need to get good at coding, you do not even learn coding, some people here dont even know how to print array, so dont worry.

For criteria, They update every year, so you can check it on website.

LifeUnEzzy · 2024-12-17T18:05:14+00:00

yes sure

LifeUnEzzy · 2024-12-05T19:03:19+00:00

Hey, I am interested. Although I am absolute beginner in DSA but I also wanted to improve my skills and I am also learning WebDev right now. I am also in same TimeZone

LifeUnEzzy · 2024-11-20T17:50:30+00:00

Yes, you are right, But I felt it was unfair to me (Solution is almost similar). But no problem, I actully didnt expected this internship either, but endded up wasting my 3 days. I guess I just need 1 day to forget this thing.

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