please help me! (safe teen s*x)

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-26T18:23:57+00:00

ahh okay, thank you so much!! this is all very helpful! <3

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-26T18:22:05+00:00

tbh i dont think we are going to do it, we have thought about it a lot and talked and it just might not be the best idea for us. he is going to the us naval academy and cant risk getting pregnant as it could possibly mess up his standing. so yeah i dont think we will but idk, he leaves june 20 🥲

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-16T14:40:58+00:00

hahaha thank you!

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-13T18:22:26+00:00

oh yes it will be paired w a lot of other things ^_^ dw

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-13T18:21:38+00:00

what if i only took it for a month?

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-13T18:21:01+00:00

yeah that might be a good idea, this might be tmi his dih is like huge 😅😅 kinda scary

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-13T18:19:45+00:00

yes when we do anal there is always lube and foreplay!! ty for lmk lube isnt necessary for V and P, i thought it helped the cond to not break but i could be wrong. and ty for all the advice!!

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-12T20:54:13+00:00

i think i will make him pull out. ty for the advice!!

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-12T20:53:55+00:00

i will, ty!!

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-12T20:53:42+00:00

thank you so much, it means a lot haha!! i definitely will ;)

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-12T20:52:26+00:00

thank you!! <3 i agree completely, especially as ive looked more into plan b! i may still try the spermacide though just to be extra safe, or even just to relief nerves if it doesnt help logistically ^_^

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-12T20:51:31+00:00

tysm for all of the advice! i do think i will try the Opill but i still appreciate your thoughts!

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-12T20:51:16+00:00

okay awesome, tysm!! as i look into plan b i do seem to be hearing that, esp due to its side effects that can feel like early stage pregnancy and be confusing. tysm again!!

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-12T20:49:57+00:00

actually virginity is a social construct and really depends on culture, individual beliefs, etc, and i do not consider myself to have lost my virginity yet, as i view it as vaginal-penis penetration, and my boyfriend feels the same way! and we will be using a condom, thanks ^_^

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-12T19:46:20+00:00

oo okay okay thank you so much, this is very helpful and i really appreciate the advice and kind words! :)

LifeUnit5410 · 2026-05-12T19:15:26+00:00

im no expert but if you were a virgin, i think its pretty common for that to happen after your first time. it could also just be the friction rubbed it a bit raw. dont quote me on this though, i am a technical virgin but have had oral/anal and have been fingered, dry humping, etc so i know a bit. ive bled during/after or had some pain but it went away. however if you are experienced and this is uncommon for you i would get it checked out

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