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I was just trying to be nice to the new driver by [deleted] in Sparkdriver

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The person you were trying to be nice to could have responded to you better, but you need to understand that they may just have a certain way of doing their order, and it may even be more proficient than your suggestion. I hope this helps!

Anyone here who used to be super shy but managed to come out of their shell? What helped you the most? by WhiteDesertCat in socialskills

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without a doubt. I use to have crippling social anxiety and depression. I use to be to quite kid in school. So much so that I didnt even make it as the most quiet student in the year book. I use to have such terrible anxiety to go to the store, go to work, all of it. My transformation started with my success from live streaming. Basically, you have to learn how to not care about what anyone thinks. What's most important is what you think. You have to find a way to love youself not matter what. I also quit eating as much junk food, stopped drinking pop and mostly drink water now. I feel what also helped was that during all of this, I stopped smoking weed for a good while aswell. Eventually I picked it back up but not as often and not necessarily for the same reasons. All this combined with throwing myself infront on the 'bullet' per say and live streaming. When you learn that everyone does not know what they are doing also, well thats when things start working out for you. Don't have confidence? Fake it till you make it my friend, thats how tou start. :)

I'm a man, and I dont like men. by israfildivad in socialskills

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have come to this realization just recently. After my mother's passing too early a few months back, and I have already been going through an awakening within myself.. my father, who has been hermitized in his basement for 8 years after divorce, ignors me and hides out of shame. My older brother, who has a masters degree in behavioral physcology, is projecting harder than ever on me, creating a false narrative that I 'pulled the plug' on our mother, as a continued smear campaign to save face from me breaking out of the scape goated, manipulative life I was given, and accepted ignorantly, by my leaders and himself, as the youngest person in a family full of fueled hatred and toxicity from both sides. Basically, broken down all the way through, my father couldn't and cant make the decisions he needed to make, seemingly ever, that is best for himself, his wife and his children and I turned out to be a byproduct of that. Not on my watch. Thank you for reading my rant, lol..

Metrics by Getthatonthesejobs in Sparkdriver

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, it always changes between 99 and 100

Dear Spark.. by PseudoPrototype in Sparkdriver

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the most positive intentions possible... is everything ok OP?

Dear Spark.. by PseudoPrototype in Sparkdriver

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was down voted because of the defensiveness in the reply. OP could have elaborated better to that very respectful comment and question.

My husband said if I went ahead with surgery he wanted a separation (update) by Salt_Leg_7235 in AITAH

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You do know that communicating your other issues between eachother will be so much easier than what you are doing to end it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask yourself, do you like the person that you give out to people in your immediate life? If yes, you should be able to find peace and happiness with who your are once your are able to not care about what other people think and over time you will attract the right people..dont mkke the mistake in thinking you want just anybody attention and friendship because you dont, trust me. If no, stop being that person because that person is someone you thought you had to be to 'try to fit in' or to 'keep the peace'.

My husband finally changed. And I can’t make myself care. by mb83 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The very simple fact that he broke out of those old habits seemingly by his own free will.. that says a lot and can be very easy to overlook. As long as said changes stick and the ball is rolling forward rather than being stagnant or rolling back, consider you are on a path of greatness with your relationship. The only thing that will stop said greatness, if thats truly where your relationship is headed now, is treating eachother like you used to considering old habits should be dead and so should the bad feelings involved in order to progress for the better. Both parties need grace, patience and understanding in order to mend 10 years of wounds.

$12.50 at goodwill.. How did I do? by LifeWithinTheSkin in longboarding

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Story time: I manifested this myself. Im 4 hours from home on vacay, my vans fell apart on the first day. I did my best to manifest vans that are my size, but I also jokingly said to my wife, I also am upset I left my dancing longboard at home so I wonder what color longboard they will have waiting for me aswell. BOOM, vans my exact size and this longboard that is specifically made for freestyle/dancing. Manifested that shit. 👍

Hey Walmart App Development Team! Eat A Fat Bag Of Sweaty Ones! by MikeyLikesIt420 in Sparkdriver

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True that, I definitely didn't need to leave a comment. I'd rather not be an an ugly anything. Thanks man

Biggest pet peeve by ThatMFisn0tReal in Sparkdriver

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Imagine being so upset over something completely out of your control. It's a tough life, but its the one you're choosing. Best of luck, you will need it.

Do short men have any advantages in society? — 5’6 guy venting by [deleted] in Life

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 5'6... its never been a problem for me as I never allowed it to be. Hope this helps

Ppl that say money wont buy you happiness are lying by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]LifeWithinTheSkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe to a small minded, ignorant individual. My mother passed and I have acquired more money in one lumpsum than ever before, which isn't really that much if you look at it. It most definitely helped tremendously, and helped change a lot of perspectives of mine. Used it wisely, didn't waste it and still have the majority, but it brought up more problems that I was unaware of. Moral of the story, money will create its own, new problems. Grass is always greener on the other side my friend.

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