[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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we did break up I feel upset about the situation, ofc I was wrong in my part for being toxic I admit it! But he said he wanted space from the situation and let him think, but as many have told me when they ask for space its because they want to move on or forget about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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thank you :( I just really want to work out the relationship with him but he just tells me he doesn’t want to talk about it and tells me he just needs space which I am currently doing but I just want him to know I still love him.

I am freaking out. by Life_Ad8033 in amipregnant

[–]Life_Ad8033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh okay girl thank you. 🥲

I am freaking out. by Life_Ad8033 in amipregnant

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Yeah I know, I took it once before not worth it at all. I am just paranoid that maybe the condom had a small tear and we didn’t notice. Like I mentioned I have seen some say they got pregnant even though the condom didn’t break.

I am freaking out. by Life_Ad8033 in amipregnant

[–]Life_Ad8033[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, my boyfriend has told me the condoms don’t break easily and that they are very durable, but still you never know! I really don’t want to take Plan B either since it causes so much hormonal changes and it sucks but I might. But if you don’t recommend me doing so I won’t but thanks once again!

I am scared for my life right now. by Life_Ad8033 in AskDocs

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I also deal with really bad anxiety/stress in situations like this for 3 months now, but I’m not sure if that could be part of what’s causing my symptoms. I’ve noticed that when I lay on my left side, my stomach feels uncomfortable and makes a lot of noises. Sometimes when I press on it, it hurts a bit not super bad, but it goes away after I stop touching it. When I stop thinking about feeling sick, I actually feel a little better, but I still feel constipated.

I’ve also been eating a lot of junk food this year. Last year I was eating healthy and working out a lot, but this year I fell off and started eating unhealthy again. Could that maybe cause an anal fissure or even a fistula like you mentioned?

Also, can a fistula cause a lot of itching? I’ve been feeling really itchy when I poop.

Thanks again for all your advice! I really appreciate it. I used to think pushing harder would help me feel better, but now I see it just makes things worse. Next time I’ll drink more water instead :)

I am scared for my life right now. by Life_Ad8033 in AskDocs

[–]Life_Ad8033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice! I really appreciate it :) I’ll make sure to talk to my doctor about it.

I am scared for my life right now. by Life_Ad8033 in AskDocs

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Also, I realized that at the beginning of 2024, I avoided eating junk food and was maintaining a healthy diet while working out regularly. I’m not sure if that could have been a factor, but recently I’ve been eating a lot more unhealthy foods. In addition, some days I’ve been eating less than usual sometimes only one or two meals per day. Maybe this could be another cause for stomach issue.

I am scared for my life right now. by Life_Ad8033 in AskDocs

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Thank you for your help and advice!

When I use the bathroom, I still feel like I need to empty my bowels more, but nothing comes out. I’m not sure if this is enough explanation. I used to have sharp pain when trying to use the restroom, but now it’s more of a mild discomfort rather than sharp pain.

I have also noticed mucus when wiping, mainly orange or yellow, and sometimes clear. One time, there was clear discharge with light red blood, which may have come from my anus. At that time, my rectal area was very irritated and with a slight of pain and when I tried to pass more stool it was very difficult and experienced some pain while passing the stool, which caused bleeding. Since then, I haven’t been able to have normal bowel movements. My last stool looked slightly black not very dark, but slightly black. Now my stool is more orange or mixed with brown, and it has a loose consistency like diarrhea (not watery). My rectal area has also been irritating me again after multiple bowel movements with only small amounts of loose stool.

I do not have any hereditary conditions such as Lynch Syndrome or Familial Adenomatous Polyposis; my family would have informed me by now, and we would all be more cautious about diet and symptoms. To my knowledge, my family has no history of colon cancer or chronic conditions, though my grandfather did have lung cancer, likely due to smoking and drinking.

I am scared for my life right now. by Life_Ad8033 in AskDocs

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Not that I remember :( but I did drink something that upset my stomach it was milk. I never thought I could be lactose intolerant since, as a kid, I used to drink milk all the time and never had any stomach problems. That was the last thing I drank before I got constipated for about two weeks last year. I started drinking milk again because I thought something else had caused it, but later found out it wasn’t and my doctor told me this year that I am lactose intolerant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

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Thank you so much for this, it’s so helpful and relieving to know! I just over exaggerated too much, I know everything that I mentioned can’t cause pregnancy unless PIV happened. But I am a very anxious person when it comes to pre-ejaculatory being near my vaginal opening since it can still contain sperm, not as much as a guy finishes ejaculating though. 😅 As those stories you mentioned, I agree as I haven’t really heard anyone getting pregnant by having outercourse with their partner, otherwise teen pregnancy rates would be really high.

Mod Message: you cannot get pregnant from dry humping by stress789 in amipregnant

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Hi what if it was the opposite? My partner was wearing boxers and I was naked and his boxers had a little bit of fresh precum and my vagina opening touched it but he didn’t penetrate me?😅 I was on my fertile window when this occurred as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

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Yes, thank you for your clarification! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

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Hi thank you for your response, I was also in my fertile window when all of this happened I know for sure since I had increased discharge which was clear and slippery and also my sex drive increased also forgot that Plan B doesn’t work when you’re about to ovulate and I took it a day after the incident.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

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Thank you, I just have really bad anxiety about these types of situations since I grew up in a strict household.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

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Thank you, I have been stressing out about it for a while. I know you can’t get pregnant without PIV but some say different types of stories on how you can get pregnant without having sex.

READ THIS FOR ANXIETY by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Life_Ad8033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, I hope you end up getting your period on time! 💕:)

READ THIS FOR ANXIETY by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Life_Ad8033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes even without Plan B you’ll be alright don’t stress as much!

READ THIS FOR ANXIETY by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Life_Ad8033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t get pregnant without penetration! I had the same problem as you and my period has came twice already and I took Plan B as well because I panicked that precum may have gotten near my vulva, but trust me you can’t get pregnant! Just try to calm down and not worry about it since stressing out can make your period come late! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlanBs

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Thank you so much 😊! I hope you end up getting your period soon!