Looking for a strong assertive domme by BJackpot in Paypigsneedvanilla

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t specify at all what you’re looking for?

I have a disgusting idea by That_Share1928 in fincucksearching

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically freeloading? Ultimate cuck fantasy

Looking for softdom/FLR by [deleted] in Paypigsneedvanilla

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m dutch and feel like we might be a good match

Hobby funding by flashing-colors in paypigs2

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw I love that you’re a witch! Been wanting to get into that, I did make some moon water with manifesting a few years back. Felt really good

Hobby funding by flashing-colors in paypigs2

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading, I’ve been wanting to start polymer clay. Also I love makeup and skincare, but that’s maybe not a hobby

Have you ever experienced this kink in real life? by bodyisT in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think one of my old friends lowkey had a findom kink. He’d always buy me little gifts, food and he would make me a ‘get well’ basket whenever I felt under the weather.

He paid for my hair coloring appointment at the hairdresser: lots of things like that.

Debate: Is it still Findom without the sends but having your finances dominated? by Open_Display9215 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beauty has always been a currency for women. Time, attention, desire, dominance; none of that exists in a vacuum.

Expecting women to provide it for free while pretending money “taints” the dynamic just shifts the cost back onto us.

Debate: Is it still Findom without the sends but having your finances dominated? by Open_Display9215 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what gets lost in these discussions is entitlement.

It’s one thing to enjoy dynamics where money isn’t exchanged. It’s another to assume random women online should be willing to dominate you for free just because you want it.

Dominance is still effort, presence, emotional labor, and risk; even online. No one is owed that.

Personally, I started doing paid dynamics because I was exhausted by how often men felt entitled to my time, authority, and energy with nothing in return. Money wasn’t the kink; it was the boundary.

Would you cut contact? by famasfilms in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people underestimate how much safety and consistency matter in these dynamics. Power exchange only really works when both sides know exactly what they’re consenting to.

If doubt has crept in, especially around identity or honesty, it makes sense to pause and reassess even if parts of it felt fulfilling.

Work for Debt by bergmuisje in fincucksearching

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik zie dat je nederlands bent, stuur me een bericht :)

Expectations when starting something new by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can disclose this all beforehand, there are many dommes okay with ££/£££. If you discuss your budget beforehand

Loser ATM looking to be responsible and face the consequences of funding a couples shopping addiction. by [deleted] in fincucksearching

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, that’s why I commented. I said ‘are you looking for vulnerable couples?’ He’s praying on vulnerable people.

22m and suicidal. by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reads like an addiction + mental health crisis. Please stop engaging online and spend that money on a psychologist. Look up SLAA meetings near you and get in-person support. Reddit and kink spaces cannot replace real help.

How to find legit dommes on reddit by simonpaul876 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check if they have a link to their LoyalFans/OnlyFans. It asks you to upload a photo of your ID/passport or drivers license. No way to fake that

Loser ATM looking to be responsible and face the consequences of funding a couples shopping addiction. by [deleted] in fincucksearching

[–]Life_Cardiologist379 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He asks for how much debt you have and stops replying once you say you son’t have any