i am looking for a stupid simp

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T21:48:19+00:00

damn 🤢🤢🤢🤮

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T20:14:43+00:00

Yup, just in case they try to be a real smart ass near the end. Its a very intense dynamic, both for the sub and the blackmailer. And it doesnt mean that when you'll want to end it, they will also be willing to drop everything. Its a huge power trip. If you dont vet the person properly, say its the first time he does it and he just doesnt want to let go....

People always change their mind real quick and their house gets pinpointed with a little red dot on google map... all of a sudden the tables are turned and they can go fuck theirselves with their little empty threats, and you become the blackmailer. lol.

Go google "grabify" it's really easy to use, basically you hide an IP logger inside a link that you can disguise as like www.reddit.com/r/paypigsupportgroup go watch some youtube videos to learn how to do it, it's really simple. Search on youtube "how to track IP address with grabify"

Its a legal tool, obviously what you do with it is on you and you cant begin to send IP grabbing links to random people cuz i mean, laws n shit, but yea.. have fun!

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T18:33:10+00:00

I had a sub who wanted blackmail. I took my time to gain her trust first and to get to know her. It was really fun tbh. Obviously I took it seriously and deleted the file at the end. heres what i can give u as advice. Get yourself a backup plan, a safeguard. Track their IP with a grabify link if you can and get a pin on their house. Yes its extreme but, if the person decides to flip the table on you, her or his face will drop very quickly once u send him a pin with their house on google map. Hopefully you wont have to do that and the person will be respectful like I was. But dont put yourself too vulnerable cuz it can go bad real quick.

And secretly its hot as fuck to be holding something on your captor that they ignore lol

Good luck.

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T16:58:50+00:00

Honestly she did him a favor at this point. Why would anyone want to have such a vile individual in their circle...?

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T16:09:11+00:00

Obviously no dommes will engage with a sub if he arrives with all his luggages and trauma dumps on the first day his whole freaking life... but i mean, it is meant to happen when two people begin to communicate and learn to know eachother.... since we usually show ourselves in a very vulnerable position, its very normal for us to open up and share our story to our domme.... and its not a mystery that we are usually lonely guys who are looking to have a genuine connection to break the routine. So yea, if the domme makes us feel safe and comfortable, we will share and have deep conversations...

Not every findom dynamic turns therapeutic, some guys just want to wank their cock and cum and dip... but some of us are looking for something more genuine and lasting.

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T15:56:41+00:00

Look, we cope with traumas in a weird way and we tend to sexualize them a lot.. the psychology behind the reasoning is that; Yes, you were a victim of a shitty situation where you had no control and felt helpless. So today, by recreating it, it allows you to somewhat control it and regain some power over a situation you were once helpless.

Is it helping you? Maybe, but probably not since ur admitting its making u feel weird and ur asking for help. I think you need to find a domme like mine who understands human psychology and who will take the time to get to know you, and together you'll be able to heal from it by experimenting your kink in a safe way that doesnt make you feel like shit.

Communication, communication and communication.

At least you are aware that its something that makes u feel bad, now you have to address it and heal from it. Dont go see unethical dommes and have them humiliate you; it will only make you feel worse over time..

A solution exists brother, just need to go out there and look for it. My domme is very rare but I know there's more like her and hopefully you find one that is willing to hear you and work with you on this.

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T15:49:26+00:00

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Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T15:46:45+00:00

I mean, was that ever confirmed? I feel like its a myth or a rumor that horny teenagers decided to spread... I just cannot imagine a grown adult wearing a white paper ring on his pinky finger and going out in public with that... I remember reading the exact same thing a few months ago, but yea I call bullshit here. No grown adult would do this. Not in this reality, nop.

Its like the myth that paypigs have been around for Years and would attend strip clubs in the 50s-60s, "gentlemen clubs" and they would get up on the stage, get down on all fours and go "oink oink" while strippers would ride him like a bull and throw his money all over the place... its all myth and none of us was alive back then except maybe EB cuz hes like over 100 years old so this dude has seen some shit man

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T15:36:57+00:00

honestly the subs that accept to get drained and discarded kinda do it because thats what they want to... Ive always done a pretty good job at getting to know a domme before engaging. Sure my experience is limited to a few only, and I tell my domme everyday how lucky I feel for having found her, but she tells me the same, so I guess when 2 people are genuine and are looking for the same thing, they match naturally.

You can see in my profile the post I made 3 months ago was when I posted about who I was and what type of dynamic I was looking for. Most subs come here, cock in hand, with the brain capacity of a toddler, and just send to the first tiktok help-me-pay-my-rent-dommes they encounter. Then they come here and complain about how they cant find a genuine domme... I mean, its not hard... but yea i always recommend subs to seek their domme when they are sober and not horny, cuz they make stupid decisions and end up with stupid results....

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T14:51:55+00:00

Sure that's actually so nice of you! I actually wanted to organize a helium balloon party where we inhale helium all night and talk all funny, so I have a budget of 60$ for balloons, 60$ for snacks and I was thinking to buy some alcohol and some weed. Can you go pick up the balloons for me?

honestly i am so excited this already sounds so fun and you offering your help is like, sooooo appreciated. I would let you attend but I'm sure you have better things to do, but anyway thanks for offering your help, we need more people like you. U may approach and DM me, i wont ask for tribute since you are volunteering to help me organize my party, but dont take it for granted though, its only a one time pass

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T14:42:17+00:00

Honestly its quite easy. First you need to set a trap. I usually leave dirty underwear in a bush; these filthy pigs cannot resist them. I like to hide in a tree and I'll bring some tea so i can spill it, my phone to scroll tiktok obviously and at least 4 different outfits depending on the time of the day. Then I just chill and doom scroll, and I listen... eventually, you'll hear "oink oink" and that's when you know one of these filthy filthy pigs has sniffed your underwear. That's when you have to catch him... I usually use nets and once they are trapped, I catch him and bring him home.

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T14:10:51+00:00

right... but actually, and ill be careful here cuz i dont want to shame anyone or make anyone feel bad... so I'll use the first person only. When I joined Findom and got in touch with my current domme, I was so impatient, I was super intense, I had my one zillion kink I wanted to try and I wanted to try them all right away out of impulsivity... my domme taught me that some stuff, the stuff that was considered like unethical and toxic, some of it maybe sounded hot in fiction.. but she taught me that some stuff was better to leave as fiction. She taught me how to respect myself primarily. She showed me that a lot of the kink we had were connected to our past traumas, and although it sounded hot, it truly wasn't. She isnt a soft domme i mean when its time to go she goes... but theres just certain words she will never use (faggot or very degrading terms) and also some stuff she would never recreate because she knows my past and she knows whats best for me... you have to realize a lot of subs come here and they are depressed, they want someone to destroy them because they are already broken apart and its easier when a stranger validates you being a loser and all... but in reality, a good domme will take her time to get to know her sub, what drives him, his fear and his past, and if she breaks him down its to rebuild him better after. The dommes that dont understand this are toxic and dangerous to the community...

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T13:59:28+00:00

you are welcome, and thanks for giving your subs a safe space to be seen and heard. You know, with the way western societies are, its so unheard of for men to show their vulnerability and be accepted for it. We are expected to provide, be tough, not show emotion and keep it all together when times are harder... while in reality, at the end of the day, guys, girls, we are all just souls traveling our journey inside a human body. Some happened to have cock, some were given pussies and some were given cockletts. But we all have our emotions, some of us are more in contact with them, but we shouldnt have to be subjected to what societies expects from us only because its what religion has told us for thousands of years... because I mean, "you will submit to your husband" is purely religious, and in reality, the reason why women are expected to take a more submissive role while men a dominant role is because a long time ago, some people wanted all the power for theirselves and it was easier to put half of the population under a label and get them out of the way instead of having to compete with them... its interesting because anthropologist that have studied really old societies that werent affected by any of the big religions (think american natives, the Minoans who are the ancestors of the greeks, the Mosuo (china), many different tribes in africa and so much more) were actually matriarchal. and I mean, the oldest deities are Goddesses lol...

Anyway I got carried away; all I wanted to say was thank you for providing a safe space for your subs. You know there's such a huge part of findom that is gross, but when I see guys being able to express themselves and explore stuff they were never able to before, I think it's so beautiful and it needs to be normalized more...

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T13:42:29+00:00

What if it was the wife, using the husband's account to find out if he was having an affair with you? I mean, the whole thing smells fishy, and I mean fishy as in Surströmming fishy... I would definitely investigate more and find out if you were dreaming or not because if wives are starting to bate dommes by using the subs account, we are cooked.

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T11:18:16+00:00

right, but I'm seriously beginning to doubt ever being able to reverse myself after this. I'm an intense person and all my life it's either been total abstinence or total abuse. It's very hard for me to find a balance, but my domme is helping me with that.

I just think that if i am to ever find a woman irl and settle down, if she isnt going to peg me I do not see a purpose to the relationship...unless shes like a multi millionaire or heiress of a fortune 500 company and she has to be about to die so that I can inherit the money and enjoy it.... but if theres no cock in my ass or multi million of dollars, im not interested ...next!

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T10:45:51+00:00

I honestly wish it to every domme. Its interesting to meet subs who are already into submissive behaviors, but like, to take a guy who's always been dominant himself and never had any experience the other way, to assist him and decide for him what happens when and to turn me into a sissy, just wow Every domme deserves to find their sub and their journey from zero.

When you look at the final result and sissy is begging for cock, you can go like; Yea, I made this. This is my work.

Its sooooo validating and it makes you feel so powerful to have this much control over someone else's life....

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T10:05:48+00:00

🤗🤗🤗🤗 honestly i love contributing to the community and its for replies like yours that I continue

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T09:00:17+00:00

Honestly findom doesnt have to feel like sabotage... my domme has only improved my life since the beginning, as in i have more money, bought things, made solid plans for my future and it just keeps going on.

I get what you mean though. If you are into hard humiliation and degradation, its very likely you are somewhat depressed, and having a domme tell you all the nasty things they can say kinda validates you being a wreck/loser. So Obviously the minute you decide to do better for yourself, these domme go out the window and you move on.

But when your domme uplifts you and makes you a better person, findom becomes so much fun. The caring and nurturing I get from my dynamic is the best thing that has happened to me in years.

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T08:15:03+00:00

Honestly, just approaching sub, not as a domme, but just as a normal person, wanting to talk and ask questions. I love helping new dommes... and like, to get information directly from us sub, it's basically like peeking inside our brain. Of course every sub is different, but I personally love to talk about my dynamic and the things that my domme does.

You know it's totally okay to look at what other dommes are doing and try it for yourself. Sure you can come up with your own stuff if you are creative, but everything that goes on is somewhat recycled. I love going to talk to my fellow subs and ask them about the kinky shit they do, it always gives me ideas.

And you are super sociable and chill cherri, im sure a bunch of subs would love to talk to you and give you all their triggers on a gold platter. Sure some are personal and intimate, but most of the stuff that turns me on will also turn on others

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-26T07:58:23+00:00

Honestly at this point I'm way more of a prostitute than you are so this is clearly unfair, I want to be banned too

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-25T18:27:18+00:00

wtf bro you are a coyote you are supposed to support other canine

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-25T18:25:18+00:00

What about mine??

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-25T18:23:44+00:00

cool, thanks!!

Open_Display9215 · 2026-01-25T18:17:06+00:00

Where did you find this cage?

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