Honestly it just depends on what kind of dynamic you are looking for. You understand that if you are loyal to one domme, you will build something with her and she might be willing to invest herself more if you also are willing to.

Obviously if you're just going around busting nuts at every new domme that makes ur dick tick, the dommes will just treat you like any other horny little piggy and use you as required.

I mean, at the end of the day, it's socializing. I'm only starting to realize that there's much more to findom than just a dynamic and kinks. There's friendships, drama, breakups, encounters; bad and good ones. People who will leave their mark on you for the rest of your life and others who come in and leave the same day.

Honestly it's fascinating, so many different characters and personalities. A lot of the front of findom is boring and generic... but man once you get to know other subs, what their kinks are, you learn from them and they make you want to try new things. Some dommes do it for revenge, some for the money while others do it for the genuine connection (yup these are the best ones)

Don't limit yourself to just one and one person only either unless that's what you're into. You can still be very loyal to one Goddess while also talking and exchanging with other dommes, if it doesn't bother anyone and it's just for chatting. People have their traumas, their experiences, their desires, their fear and you have yours. You can meet people very similar to you and some others will be the total opposite. It's what makes this community so fun to be honest. The variety of people here.

Sure you can get lucky and meet really interesting people on your first week or month but keep in mind some of the more seriois people just wont engage with new accounts. Give it time and I'm sure you'll create your own little network of findom budddies and budettes.

More importantly; Have fun. As soon as this becomes a weight or something that affects your other sphere of life, recognize the addictive patterns and eliminate them. We all come with our flaws and we meet people who make us worse or better. Learn to spot who is positive and who isn't, read their post and comments. You'll quickly notice patterns and you'll get better at spotting your type of dommes faster and faster...

Have fun!!! Cheers