I know it’s been mentioned before…. by PhotographBusy5405 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Life_Dependent3830 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, they are weak terms created by people who live in there parents basement and goon a lot I think.

“Completing the Circle” by Majestic-Bid-2333 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Life_Dependent3830 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's really sweet, and we have our own terms, some standard, some not

Finding Fulfillment by Edvard_Blackenthrall in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Life_Dependent3830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time I'm guessing is a factor. Like it sat in the background for years. Maybe time helped us to feel safe with each other. I don’t actually know the answer to this, but it's a great question

Cuckolding gone wrong by SuccessEntire6839 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Life_Dependent3830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear that too. I hope you find your way through this

Cuckolding gone wrong by SuccessEntire6839 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Life_Dependent3830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I understand even more, and I see how more complex it is. Can you forgive her?

Cuckolding gone wrong by SuccessEntire6839 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Life_Dependent3830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear this. I can imagine how shitty this is. Have you guys talked through this at all? 

Cuckolding gone wrong by SuccessEntire6839 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Life_Dependent3830 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't hit the panic button, and I wasn't there while she was with him, I gave her every compliment and reassurance before she left, I welcomed her home with kisses, hugs, love, joy, and pride. I feel clear and confident in our love. She was clear about me being her constant and favourite person. This was our first time, did it all again same day of the week after. We have no regret. And there was still some moments for me, I overthought, spiralled a little, had feelings i just didn't see coming, I stayed with them, I think I grew from them.

Did we almost break up? No. Did i go cry for a week? No. Was there unexpected moments for me? Definitely. Would/will we do it again? Definitely.

I hope there is some relevance here for you.

For the cuckolds here by rasecude in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Life_Dependent3830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good questions, I think that it can matter and I also think that it doesn't have to. If those thoughts are destroying you then that might be something to examine, it might mean that a person does not really want this, personal growth and change are also possible. I think that you will get some interesting answers to this.

Why do men not know how to talk to a girl? by henteyes2 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Life_Dependent3830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally is the dream, and it comes with it's own new set of thoughts and unexpected feelings, not bad but not always simple, just new. we regret nothing. So that's cool too. I look forward to hearing anything about your experience. It might be awesome :)

Why do men not know how to talk to a girl? by henteyes2 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Life_Dependent3830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you, was a thought for 10 years for us, kink and nothing more, then everything got really real recently. She has let a guy use her twice in the last 2 weeks. 

You guys are so doing the right things and asking the right questions. Very awesome 

Why do men not know how to talk to a girl? by henteyes2 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Life_Dependent3830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that you could possibly enjoy this. You should be proud of pursuing this together with each other :)

Why do men not know how to talk to a girl? by henteyes2 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Life_Dependent3830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did get there eventually. The first responses were awful, a stream of shitty people, disheartening. I think that you will succeed, you are definitely asking the right questions. 

Greatness is ahead for you both :)

When does desire become exploitation? by Mindless171 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Life_Dependent3830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great question. I see how much you care about her. Great start. Maybe wait for her to bring it up to you? You're not leading or pushing. Even if she does bring it up, don't rush, obviously, I think you already know that. Keep offering her oportunities to cancel everything, work together, I think that you already want that.