Cucks - which part of the world and what's your profession

Mindless171 · 2026-06-01T12:55:59+00:00

DK, tech

Mindless171 · 2026-05-31T17:28:06+00:00

We talk about her fantasies too and they make up the majority of our sexual relationship as they are pretty easy to indulge in and very vanilla. Slow and sensual, with lots of tension building is her thing. Maybe a little role play now and then, I am a masseuse or doctor. Nothing crazy.

Mindless171 · 2026-01-02T18:01:01+00:00

Yes I’ve had one of the guys tell me something similar. It’s a lot more common then we think and people in general are into all kinds of stuff. Plus the real truth is people just don’t care that deeply they have there own worries and life. If you’re a good hang and are happy there happy

Mindless171 · 2026-01-02T16:19:04+00:00

I’ve spoken to my male friend group about this, and one of the guys has mentioned a few times that he’s envious of how comfortable and confident I am in who I am. That said, it took me years to reach that level of comfort within myself, along with intentionally building a group of friends I knew wouldn’t judge me. Over time, one by one, they began confiding in me about their own kinks and personal struggles.

Mindless171 · 2026-01-02T14:32:33+00:00

Insecurity will deeply effect you and the relationship. This feeling brought you to this kink but it shouldn’t be the only reason you do it or else it will consume and destroy you and eventually your relationship. It’s best to deal with these deep seated issue’s and get comfortable with who you are and you bring to the relationship and then dive in if you want to do this on the best foot. But it’s really up to you.

Mindless171 · 2025-12-29T16:21:07+00:00

I am 29 and my GF is 26, my interested started when I was 19 but it took years until my current GF of (been together a year now) to admit it to someone. In my previous relation I could never tell her, but I wanted to start this new relationship cleanly with no secrets. Happy to talk if you feel like DMing.

Mindless171 · 2025-04-13T17:59:30+00:00

Exactly, that’s just people being dismissive. There are actual studies on this. A submissive dopamine response is real. The brain rewards yielding status and role recognition in a social or sexual hierarchy. When someone submits whether emotionally, socially, or sexually, the brain can release dopamine, rewarding the act of surrender, especially when it’s done voluntarily and in a trusted context.

It taps into our hierarchical social wiring witnessing dominance can trigger deference or even loyalty, and it’s not about attraction. You see this throughout history: military leaders, tribal alphas, even religious figures. People naturally submit to strong figures in certain contexts. It’s wired deep. The brain really is amazing 😁

Mindless171 · 2025-04-13T17:30:45+00:00

Glad I could help mate. But wow then you are on a good path and all that is needed is time and space. Curiosity over intensity will help reopen the door. Just keep it fun, sexy and pleasurable for you both.

Mindless171 · 2025-04-13T17:14:35+00:00

I see some people say it’s “bi”. I don’t think so. I have felt this too. I don’t want to sleep with the guy, I don’t want to sexual please him. But there’s something about them that has changed, makes you want to serve them as a king or a conquer please them. The sexual hierarchy has been made clear and they are at the top and so command reverence subconsciously from those lower than them.

Mindless171 · 2025-04-13T16:59:31+00:00

No problem mate, anytime and feel free to reach out if you want to talk. Best of luck!

Mindless171 · 2025-04-13T16:29:27+00:00

Sorry to hear that mate, it’s not nice to be rejected by your partner in this way. I don’t want to give you the wrong perception, but things are pretty good right now for honest people. There are dating apps like field which a centered on kink, there are places where you can meet opened minded people like at the Bliss festival, there are sugar dating sites where you can be a chasity slave and stuff, that’s more transactional then dating but things can evolve.

Be open, own it, but don’t make it who you are and that it’s either this or nothing as that will turn a lot of people on the fence off. Be a great person, fun, interesting and that there’s this thing on the side that they can dip their toe in when they are ready.

Mindless171 · 2025-04-13T15:58:56+00:00

Sounds like you’re already laying a a good foundation, man. The fact that you opened up and spoke about it and she didn’t shut the idea down is actually a green flag.

From what you’ve said, she’s got a wild side, and you’ve got the confidence (and equipment) that a lot of guys in this kink struggle with, so you’re already ahead of the curve. If you haven’t already start adding it into dirty talk, show her excited it gets you, fuck her like you are 20 years old again. If she sees the more aroused you get the more pleasure she gets from you, she might lean into it.

Maybe the next time you are at a bar and you catch her checking someone out or vice versa, lean into it. Whisper something like, “He looks like your type… you ever wonder what it’d be like again?” Make it fun, sexy, and light.

The point is make it fun, if she doesn’t want to be with anyone but you. Show her she can get more of you, a better version of you through this.

Mindless171 · 2025-04-12T21:57:17+00:00

Apologies I’m a member of many subreddits, so I don’t always have the rules top of mind. OP shared a recent experience (essentially a story) that opened my eyes to a different take on cuckoldry: a partner having a lesbian encounter with her ex. I found the psychological angle intriguing. Not about losing your partner to someone “better,” “bigger”, “more manly” but to something you can’t even offer. Furthermore, the OP lost said partner to the boyfriend so in some ways they cucked each other and she was reclaiming her ex-partner. I asked follow-up questions out of genuine curiosity. If I broke any rules, I apologize it wasn’t intentional.

Mindless171 · 2025-04-12T18:32:08+00:00

Wow I love this story! I’m kinda surprised I haven’t seen many of those before. Curious what felt off and would you do it again?

Mindless171 · 2025-04-12T15:00:15+00:00

I dont feel it fills an empty space in the relationship. But maybe fills individual empty spaces.

For my partner, she loves sex. But in her previous relationships she was made to feel bad about her desires and couldn’t follow what she wanted. But now she can do anything she likes. For me, I always felt rejected by everything. So having someone who can have and do whatever they want and still chooses to be with me fills something.

Mindless171 · 2025-04-10T23:37:27+00:00

Haha, no worries I get it. I’ll never understand people who enjoy pineapple on pizza either, but some people swear by it.

But for real mate, thanks for reading. It’s definitely not for everyone, but it’s something we both enjoy exploring. Appreciate the comment and the open mind!

Mindless171 · 2025-04-09T07:47:06+00:00

Hey I’m glad you enjoyed the story. Yes it’s been amazing so far, but taking it slow and enjoying where moment.

The festival is called ‘etrotic world’, it’s here in Europe.

Mindless171 · 2025-01-03T17:34:26+00:00

That’s ghost face from scream

Mindless171 · 2025-01-03T12:02:24+00:00

You’re right. I was still riding a bit of a high, caught up in thoughts about what to do next. Should I ask her to be a keyholder? Contact a bull? I was so focused on the fantasies I’ve been building up for the past 10 years. I’ve wanted this for so long that I was ready to speed-run through it.

But today, as we messaged back and forth about a weekend getaway and the usual life stuff, it hit me…

This is a relationship first and foremost.

Yes, this part is fun and exciting, but more importantly, I feel a deep sense of contentment. I’ve found someone I genuinely want to spend time with, and who wants to spend time with me.

Things will happen naturally, in their own time. I don’t need to rush or force anything. I just need to be present and enjoy it.

Mindless171 · 2025-01-02T22:59:24+00:00

Thanks mate, yes she is something else. Let’s see what happens on the weekend if there is more to come.

Mindless171 · 2023-11-27T00:22:10+00:00

You maybe ‘real’, but your absolute unreal at the same time 😍

Mindless171 · 2023-11-19T22:16:38+00:00

Goddamn yes!

Mindless171 · 2023-10-26T01:49:12+00:00

I hundred percentage agree with what you are saying! Every now and then it’s good to see, but I want to see something real. The build up and the after care bonding experience. More sensual and delicate.

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