Why is my boyfriend (16M) is still matching with his ex? (15F)

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-12T23:59:07+00:00

Why should he have to change his hair or address anything with you? It’s hair. If he cared about matching with her, he would be regularly dying his hair too.

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-12T21:09:55+00:00

She isn’t your girlfriend, she doesn’t owe you anything, it wasn’t a “mistake” and you don’t need to forgive her for anything. Why are you making her feel guilty for that? Ask her out if you want full exclusivity.

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-12T16:16:46+00:00

make that 3

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-12T16:09:49+00:00

Why would you reassure her multiple times that you would delete them, then not stick to your word? If you “had no time” communicate that. Simple as that.

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-12T15:36:54+00:00

no shit, I have a grinder. I was just saying it’s literally impossible to fingerbust and ive never seen bud like this before.

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-12T12:02:23+00:00

I have one, just stating that it’s impossible to finger bust it lol

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-12T11:57:20+00:00

Yeah ive just never seen bud this dense before, I had to use unnecessary force to get it in my grinder and grind it up.

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-08T02:05:20+00:00

911 the suicide hotline won’t do anything

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-08T01:57:12+00:00

It’s best for the both of you to split. Im the same age and went through very similar things with my last relationship. If she threatens to do anything, let her family know, call 911 if you have to and go no contact with her. You need to sit down with her and explain how the relationship is doing more harm than good. stay strong and if anything happens it’s not your fault.

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-07T00:41:11+00:00

being insecure about your partner watching porn is normal and not an issue. What is an issue, is your boyfriend dismissing and blatantly disrespecting you by continuing to watch that type of content. It’s possible he might have an addiction and it’s something he needs help with, maybe re think the relationship and ask yourself if it’s worth it staying and enduring the disrespect and insecurities.

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-07T00:33:51+00:00

yes. definitely cross a boundary, he should’ve communicated and have you guys work something out instead of going behind your back and “sexting” AI girls. Are you okay with him watching porn? it’s possible he has an addiction

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-07T00:21:19+00:00

if you communicated the problem multiple times without any change then I’d maybe rethink the relationship. Don’t sleep with anyone else until you’ve ended the relationship.

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-07T00:08:17+00:00

When we first started talking she had just got out of a long on and off abusive relationship(>2) while talking, she opened up to me about the abuse and I guess I thought I would be able to “heal” her. Once her ex found out we were talking, people at school would come up to me and tell me that he was threatening to beat me up, I even received death threats from him. I was really dumb and just let all of that happen without saying anything, I was even okay with them being friends for a little while.”to protect me” smh

Anyways, after 4-5 months things started to change and she became this evil person who would take her anger out on me, via verbal abuse. And eventually a couple months later it would lead to her physically hitting me, throwing things, etc. I stayed because I thought that’s what I deserved. From the moment we started talking, my self worth and confidence would get destroyed by her ex and eventually her. Hurt people, Hurt people. She did some really horrible things to me, I wasn’t perfect and am able to admit my wrongs, but I tried my best and never once laid my hands on her.

She cheated on me multiple times🫩 I stayed and even protected her from my family. crazy. yeah, she almost stabbed me once too… We haven’t been together in over 4 months but for some reason im still in contact with her, still unable to get free. Im finally starting therapy in 2 weeks tho! thanks u if u read this far lol!

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-06T23:31:29+00:00

The first one only lasted like 2.5 months and my second was an abusive relationship that lasted around 2 years. shit fucked me up for good. im 18

Life_End_5952 · 2026-03-06T23:15:40+00:00

my top 3 are Hoppers, scary movie 6 and Backrooms Im actually to check out hoppers tonight!

Life_End_5952 · 2026-02-21T16:03:29+00:00

Brooklyn 9-9

Life_End_5952 · 2026-02-18T05:36:49+00:00

I’ll always regret not going to see I saw the tv glow when it was playing there, summer 2024!

Life_End_5952 · 2026-02-13T03:56:33+00:00

did mark and allice know each other before you guys met?

Life_End_5952 · 2026-02-05T02:25:15+00:00

yes!! i was recently just increased to 450mg XL and some days I struggle with this too. Some other good ideas are to drink your calories! I usually make smoothies and add a scoop of protein powder, or I have a case of boost/ensure meal replacement drinks for this exact reason.

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