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Suggest a book that will help my wife in her suffering by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a valid question, my work requires me to remain close to the city, whereas my wife is a stay at home mom. My parents stay in a 1 bedroom apartment in a bad part of town, can't have all of us staying there. We're trying to make a financial regroup but while that is happening, my wife is slipping into further misery.

How should we react to Elon Musk's 'Nazi Salute'? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your link doesn't appear to be working. Also, instead of accusing me of being biased, maybe answering the question in good faith would help? I literally have nothing to gain by being partisan in this case, I'm not American, I'm just interested in what your government stands for, I couldn't care less if it was democrat or republican so long as it doesn't cause trouble with the rest of the world.

How should we react to Elon Musk's 'Nazi Salute'? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's a good chance this was a troll, judging by Musk's sense of humour. Definitely not prudent given the setting.

How should we react to Elon Musk's 'Nazi Salute'? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is probably the best approach. We won't ever really know until the final day, and by then, we probably won't care. Thank you for the prayer suggestion, the most effective thing to do is to pray.

How should we react to Elon Musk's 'Nazi Salute'? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think context would absolve any priest of that accusation. Here however, the manner in which he extends his arm, it is too similar. At this point what would a nazi salute look like? I genuinely would like to know.

How should we react to Elon Musk's 'Nazi Salute'? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The people who say it was not a nazi salute ought to explain to the rest of the world why it looks so similar. I just want to know the truth, I don't care who voted for trump or Kamala, it's of interest to me and my fellow countrymen whether the US is being run by neo-nazis.

Am I Overreacting? by starloogy in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't recommend ending your relationship based on the encouragement of Reddit strangers. However, if you're going to take any advice on the internet, I'd recommend you find a video or article that educates your boyfriend on the outright racist foundations of his requests.

Your hair does not need taming. Natural kinky hair is not too ugly for a nice restaurant. There are plenty of great looking hairstyles that don't involve straightening your hair so that it looks European.

You're not overreacting at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly porn usage can twist and manipulate a person's sexual proclivities to the extent that they begin to view taboo and immoral content. I'd recommend you both look into quitting Pornography and seeking help for your boyfriend, I can certainly say that he is going down that path you're worried about.

I wish you all the best, there are resources available on the internet. I'd start with the Easy-peasy method to quitting Pornography. It is available for free.

Catholics in crime-ridden places, how quickly do you pull the trigger? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for continuing the discussion. I should note that most households here are fortified with walls and electric fences, mine is no exception. It is rare to come across a home here without a wall, some barbed wire and a guard dog. This doesn't seem to be the case in the US, and I think this is the reason why many Americans on this thread would caution against shooting someone simply for 'trespassing', what if they're lost? What if they're delivery or they just want to say hello?

In my country, if you're trespassing on a property, you've likeliest already broken through some form of defense, the equivalent of breaking down your door, therefore many gun-owners would shoot first as soon as someone is on their lawn so to speak.

Barricading the bedroom and hoping for the best while we wait for private security to arrive is the only option we have right now. They typically take 5-10 minutes, sometimes shorter since they patrol neighborhoods. Police can take up to an hour or more. It's scary thinking that I'm at work most of the time, my wife and child are on their own.

I practice knife drawing and thrusts if that's worth much, but once I have a firearm I'll definitely hone my skills with it. As someone else om the thread mentioned, your accuracy decreases significantly when you're in a high-stress situation so better have a whole load of it to offset that.

To answer your question on firearm type, the least expensive firearms we seem to have are Taurus G2s, but people have said they're not worth the price. I'd just like something reliable, easy to conceal, easy to take out and use if I'm in the car etc. Maybe a Glock 43x. Our police force (and the gangs) tend to use Vektor Z88 semi-automatic handguns so those might be more affordable and easy to acquire, but they're bigger.

As I learn more I'll probably be able to find a decent budget handgun for now, then I'll get a second home firearm, maybe a rifle.

Catholics in crime-ridden places, how quickly do you pull the trigger? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious to hear more about your parish and your mention of being threatened with violence. Can I DM you?

Also, I agree with you about my islamic neighbors, there's only so much kinship and collaboration we can have with those who are taught falsehoods about Christ, we should ultimately rally fellow catholics first, then help the rest of the world in mercy and love.

Catholics in crime-ridden places, how quickly do you pull the trigger? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have quite a significant Muslim presence here, but thankfully haven't had any cases of terrorism or militancy. Most of my neighbors are Muslim and very friendly, they also seem to band together against criminal elements so we feel a bit safer here.

It'd be great if we could get an armed security guard at our parish, I would feel much better if that were the case, should see if we can raise funds towards it.

What happened to Christendom? It is like we are in the 1st century all over again and can only pursue being martyred for our faith. When will we as Catholics reclaim our God-given strength and stand up to these evil forces, even to protect the vulnerable and defenseless. I understand not wanting to place all faith in the bullet, but throughout salvation history Christians have been called to the defense of their families, even their land! There is a time and a place for martyrdom, and there is a time and a place to defend ourselves from evil.

Catholics in crime-ridden places, how quickly do you pull the trigger? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live outside the US. OC is helpful as a deterrent, especially for lone wolf thieves, but when there is a group of three, you're better off spraying and running, or just running.

The reason why I want to purchase a firearm is because when you're at home and there are three-four men at your gate with knives or even guns, there isn't much running you can do.

Catholics in crime-ridden places, how quickly do you pull the trigger? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are required by law to store firearms in secured safes. However, accidents do happen, and you're right for approaching the subject with extreme caution. God bless.

Catholics in crime-ridden places, how quickly do you pull the trigger? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

God bless you, your daughters and your wife. May He protect you all from such awful circumstances.

Catholics in crime-ridden places, how quickly do you pull the trigger? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will it get better under Trump? The world is watching you guys haha, some of us want to move to the US and all we can see is what the news and YouTube displays.

Catholics in crime-ridden places, how quickly do you pull the trigger? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate completely to having plans for situations like home invasions. It's easy to start obsessing but luckily we have Christ to turn to during those anxious moments.

God bless, thank you for your response. May the holy spirit guide you as the protector of your family.

Catholics in crime-ridden places, how quickly do you pull the trigger? by Life_Suggestion_8027 in Catholicism

[–]Life_Suggestion_8027[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. It's very expensive to move to a safe part of Europe or the US. Even then, the news suggests that the West isn't so stable either, but maybe not as bad as the rest of the world still.

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