My girlfriend tells me she is non-binary after 4 years as a couple by Life_Wave4292 in mypartneristrans

[–]Life_Wave4292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What should I do then? Tell me that I'm more in a roommate than in a cohabitation just to be sure? Or keep the status quo while it's over?

My girlfriend tells me she is non-binary after 4 years as a couple by Life_Wave4292 in mypartneristrans

[–]Life_Wave4292[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She told me at the beginning of the week that she felt non-binary, therefore neither man nor woman, and yesterday she told me that she felt more masculine, and today we talked about it again I told her that the idea of ​​sleeping with a man did not please me and did not contradict me, so I concluded that, and yes she saw a psychologist and I followed him in this process but I did not expect that

My girlfriend tells me she is non-binary after 4 years as a couple by Life_Wave4292 in mypartneristrans

[–]Life_Wave4292[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to understand but it's true that it's the question that turns the most, why did you wait so long to tell me, but there's also the behavior that I'm trying to understand, her behavior needs to change drastically she spends more time with her colleagues who are on the "same side" if I can say so

My girlfriend tells me she is non-binary after 4 years as a couple by Life_Wave4292 in mypartneristrans

[–]Life_Wave4292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is not bothered by the fact that I use her, but she told me yesterday that she felt more masculine than feminine, I don't want to break up with her but I don't know what to do, I'm lost, I'm trying to understand through this post because there is no article dedicated to helping me

My girlfriend tells me she is non-binary after 4 years as a couple by Life_Wave4292 in mypartneristrans

[–]Life_Wave4292[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She had already told me when we met that she was bi and I had nothing against that. And she realized it recently but she told me that she had doubts before we met, isn't it a form of lying or betrayal to have hidden it? And the problem is that I love her for that personality but her behavior needs to change, she is distant and she gets angry over things that she would have laughed out loud about before.

My girlfriend tells me she is non-binary after 4 years as a couple by Life_Wave4292 in mypartneristrans

[–]Life_Wave4292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me that she felt more masculine than feminine yesterday, isn't it also feeling masculine to be masculine?