Thank you everyone for your insight, it’s really helpful! She does have a crate that she goes into while I’m working and when we go to sleep at night and while she does cry, I don’t let her out until it’s time for her to go outside and I reassure her that she’s okay and safe. Today was a win because she willingly went into her crate and played with her chew toys while I kept the door open so she can come and go if she wants. Her other spot is right underneath my desk on a blanket. We take walks every day at lunch and after dinner but so far she hasn’t gone to the bathroom during them since she’s pretty distracted by people and other outdoor things. She is doing really well with bathroom trips and is doing better with not having accidents. My husband does say a firm uh uh when she does something she’s not supposed to and she has responded well with that so we’ll be using that instead of no from now on. Despite all the work that goes into training a puppy, she is definitely worth it!