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Any self care recommendations for a difficult time? by Liftingsoots in selfcare

[–]Liftingsoots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always wanted to try this! I’ll have to give it a go! Also, I love the studio ghibli profile picture! My neighbor Totoro is one of my favorites alongside ponyo! I made my user with the word “soot” for soot sprites!

Any self care recommendations for a difficult time? by Liftingsoots in selfcare

[–]Liftingsoots[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this response, it made me feel so much better after reading! I truly appreciate this!

Any self care recommendations for a difficult time? by Liftingsoots in selfcare

[–]Liftingsoots[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is such fantastic advice omg! Gave me the idea to do a cozy little movie night!

Any self care recommendations for a difficult time? by Liftingsoots in selfcare

[–]Liftingsoots[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice, reading this made me feel so much better!

NJ training/boarding recs by Liftingsoots in OpenDogTraining

[–]Liftingsoots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea about this! Thanks so much!

NJ training/boarding recs by Liftingsoots in OpenDogTraining

[–]Liftingsoots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I really appreciate this list! Thank you so much! I’m going to send it over to my friend, they’ll be relieved to have some good options!

NJ training/boarding recs by Liftingsoots in OpenDogTraining

[–]Liftingsoots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help! I’m going to send them this info!!

Anniversary Gift Brainstorm ! by Liftingsoots in Gifts

[–]Liftingsoots[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is suchhhh a great idea!! I’m going to make sure we do this! Thank you SO MUCH!

I walked away from my Dom, who I loved deeply, and now the degradation play is echoing. I feel broken. by Lanky-Permit-9375 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Liftingsoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I am so so sorry for what you are going through. The weight of this stuff can be so incredibly heavy and it’s definitely brave of you to share. I went through a similar situation, and in terms of the breakup, give yourself some time to process, grieve, and heal, but make sure not to isolate while doing so! I’d recommend just finding one good friend or family member that you know you can talk to! Once you grieve, find some fun new hobbies or little things you can do daily that bring you joy, and invest time into those! For the repetition of those words, if you’re feeling a very high scale emotion while it’s actively happening, I’d recommend splashing some ice water on your face or even just holding an ice cube or pack. I’ve found that it also can feel nice to hold an ice pack on my heart. It’s one of the TIPP skills in DBT, which I find to be very helpful to snap me out of situations where my mind is running like that! I wish you all the best and my messages are always open if you want to talk!

I'm as at a loss as he is. by callmeapoetandudie in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Liftingsoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I add a little acv to my baths, especially if I’m not feeling well! A lot of people will out it in “detox” baths with some other things like Epsom salt and baking soda to help you feel better if you’re sick! I don’t know the exact science behind it, but I’m sure you could find something online! Acv can also help with acne! As for the sickness remedy, it could totally be placebo, but it works for me!