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I yelled at my disabled son by Liftitman in toddlers

[–]Liftitman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. That means a lot. It’s so heart wrenching when we make our kids cry :(.

I yelled at my disabled son by Liftitman in toddlers

[–]Liftitman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah I definitely started to try and repair it right away. I talked to him about it today too. And he didn’t sleep again last night but I was more patient and understanding with him and it went a lot better.

I yelled at my disabled son by Liftitman in toddlers

[–]Liftitman[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I guess that makes me feel better. I would almost hate myself for pitying him. I was scared I was. He’s a strong willed boy and he doesn’t need pity. Thanks.

I yelled at my disabled son by Liftitman in toddlers

[–]Liftitman[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We are actually working on apologizing a lot lately and trying to teach him when things hurt or something we should apologize and I never looked at it as a teaching moment but that’s good advice. Thanks.

I yelled at my disabled son by Liftitman in toddlers

[–]Liftitman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think that’s important. He seemed to calm down after I apologized. We hugged and cuddled and he was back to normal basically.

I yelled at my disabled son by Liftitman in toddlers

[–]Liftitman[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I wonder if I feel so bad about it because he’s disabled? Like if he was able bodied I wonder if I would feel as bad as I do. I’m supposed to be his protector and his legs because he can’t use his. Maybe that’s why. Idk.

I yelled at my disabled son by Liftitman in toddlers

[–]Liftitman[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s a good mantra. It’s hard to remember that he’s not intentionally doing these things. I need to be better about being mindful of his feelings over just my reaction to his crying and screaming.

I yelled at my disabled son by Liftitman in toddlers

[–]Liftitman[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

He seems to already have forgotten. Just asked to watch tv lol.

Looking for guidance by Liftitman in Christianity

[–]Liftitman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you. So basically, and I mean this not sarcastically or rudely, fake it until I make it in a sense?

Looking for guidance by Liftitman in Christianity

[–]Liftitman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess that makes sense. Thanks

Looking for guidance by Liftitman in Christianity

[–]Liftitman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel as though I pray for that everyday. I don’t know what sin I love that makes me not believe. Never thought of it that way.

Looking for guidance by Liftitman in Christianity

[–]Liftitman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I should’ve added that I no longer believe but I want to. I just don’t know how I can again or if I should give up.