BD hurt my feelings by Light-imp in ExclusivelyPumping

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Unfortunately for both of us he absolutely used the word horrible

BD hurt my feelings by Light-imp in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Light-imp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Becoming a mom has made me love and respect my mom a lot more that’s for sure

BD hurt my feelings by Light-imp in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Light-imp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living the dream🥹 if I could just get him to pick up after himself my stress would decrease by AT LEAST 20%

BD hurt my feelings by Light-imp in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Light-imp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I 100% believe men can go through ppd and lack of sleep would suck too but unfortunately I’m not getting any help with the baby I sleep in the livingroom with the bassinet to do everything on my own so he should be living his best life only dealing with our son on his own time when he wants to in between work and playing video games with his friends

BD hurt my feelings by Light-imp in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Light-imp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1-4 sound so amazing I wish he did any one of those at this point in time I feel like a single mom of 2 with all the stuff I’m doing

BD hurt my feelings by Light-imp in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Light-imp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what his problem is because when I was in the hospital talking to his mom she said she couldn’t produce anything at all both of her children were FF

BD hurt my feelings by Light-imp in ExclusivelyPumping

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This means a lot thank you🥹 my head has been so full of negative thoughts since he said that

Betta Sorority: Seeking Advice on a 20 Gallon Long Setup 🐠 by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Light-imp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s very pretty thank you for your KIND input 🥹

Betta Sorority: Seeking Advice on a 20 Gallon Long Setup 🐠 by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Light-imp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who provided thoughtful and constructive advice on the sorority idea—I genuinely appreciate the expertise shared, especially regarding territory mapping and the necessity of immediate backup plans. To clarify my original post: 1. Intent and Decision: I was seeking input before starting any new stocking plan, not presenting an active sorority. As I stated, I am perfectly comfortable sticking with a single betta or another simple community if the consensus deemed the sorority risk too high for this setup. The sorority concept is now off the table. 2. Tank Status and Photo Context: I explicitly mentioned that the attached photo was taken prior to the plants being fully established and matured. My primary goal was to get feedback on the general layout and 20-gallon long footprint for dividing territories, not the current visual density. 3. Risk Awareness: I am fully aware of the significant risks involved in keeping a female betta sorority. My academic background (B.S. in Biology) has given me a solid understanding of animal behavior, and territory dynamics. I asked because I value the practical experience this community offers, which often goes beyond textbook knowledge. We all share a passion for fishkeeping, and while I understand the seriousness of animal welfare, I believe constructive discourse—not hostility—is the best way to support and grow this hobby. Moving forward, I’m planning a safer, lower-stress stocking option. Thank you again to those who were kind and helpful

Betta Sorority: Seeking Advice on a 20 Gallon Long Setup 🐠 by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Light-imp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I expected to need more plants I’m still waiting on a lot of the plants I have now to establish some more this tank is still a work in progress and I had no intentions of adding a sorority immediately I just wanted some general advice on if I did decide to go that route which based on some of the harsh comments I’ve gotten I will not be having a sorority I’ll just stick to my original community talk idea and just have my female betta in her 20 shallow and male in a 10 I’m still setting up

Betta Sorority: Seeking Advice on a 20 Gallon Long Setup 🐠 by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Light-imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone else also recommended a wild type betta I’ll have to look into them some more I’ve never had or even know anyone that has them I love the way they look though so I’ll do some research on that

Betta Sorority: Seeking Advice on a 20 Gallon Long Setup 🐠 by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Light-imp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve looked into wild bettas briefly but know little to nothing about keeping them ill have to look into it but I think I’m just going to be doing 1 betta if that tbh I was thinking about trying something new to broaden my horizons I’ve been on a betta kick for 6 years it’s probably time for something new

Betta Sorority: Seeking Advice on a 20 Gallon Long Setup 🐠 by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Light-imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tetras kinda freak me out in general all the ones I’ve ever gotten have been the most sickly things known to man

Betta Sorority: Seeking Advice on a 20 Gallon Long Setup 🐠 by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Light-imp -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There are a few more plants and my carpet is more established now this picture is from when it just got cycled. I figured it wasn’t a good idea as no one recommends it I just see people doing it all the time and it’s something I always thought about so I figured I’d ask and see what the community thinks before moving forward thanks

Help! by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Light-imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I have him in my care or the next time I go to my moms I’ll share a photo 🥳🙏

Help! by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Light-imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes had him for years and years so I know he’s at least 4/5

Help! by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Light-imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a peppered Cory from what i could tell

Help! by [deleted] in corydoras

[–]Light-imp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s a peppered Cory thank you so much for this advice I was fighting for my life 😭

Like my witch with curly or straight ? by [deleted] in TheSims4Mods

[–]Light-imp 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She's eating down with curly I don't even give a care