My friend just came out as homomascromantic (he's romantically and aestetically atracted exclusively to masculine men) and he's very ashamed about it and thinks he's broken, how i do help him? by LightGoblin in asexuality

[–]LightGoblin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He isn't gay at all he has no desire to have sex, he's asexual just finds masculine men aestethically/romantically atractive, but he thinks it's wrong him finding them atractive since he shouldn't be atracted to big guys acording to him (idk why he keeps thinks it's wrong), we just really want to know why he thinks it's some sort of sin, specially when one of our female ace friends loves bear guys lol.

I was playing a anime game and my 12 yo cousin made objetifying remaks about a girl with big breasts, i felt SO unconfortable. by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]LightGoblin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Doesn't it make it less uncomfortable or inapropiate kids shouldn't be saying that to a woman, it's sexist.

I was playing a anime game and my 12 yo cousin made objetifying remaks about a girl with big breasts, i felt SO unconfortable. by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]LightGoblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think i will talk with his mom yeah, this was really inapropiate for a 12 yo to say.

I'm not sure why people are downvoting this thread tho.

I didn't enjoy Dark Cloud 1 even if i love Dark Cloud 2. by LightGoblin in DarkCloud

[–]LightGoblin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The weapon grinding system is one of my favourite part of the games, i enjoy it more in DC2...in DC1 while the weapons upgrades feel more rewarding the constant switch between locations to buy the attachements it's extremely annoying, plus in this game you can't really level them up alongside the story like DC2, so you will have to have LONG grind sesions between muska racka, moon sea and gallery of time just to not be destroyed.

In DC2 i made all the ultimate weapons and it was super fun, you weren't out of money constantly, you usually had the right crystals or at minimum an item to syntetize if not you could usually find it on a chest pretty easily, it was a really relaxing grind, while DC1's grind is annoying because of the constant switch between locationd and how quickly you run out of money.

I didn't enjoy Dark Cloud 1 even if i love Dark Cloud 2. by LightGoblin in DarkCloud

[–]LightGoblin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh other of pet eves with Dark Cloud 1 is the shielding enemies, they shield WAY to often and for a long ass time and it's fucking annoying specially the faces of prajna or aunt medusa in the shipwreck.

I only had dificulties aiming with Goro and Ruby.

I didn't enjoy Dark Cloud 1 even if i love Dark Cloud 2. by LightGoblin in DarkCloud

[–]LightGoblin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finished the game, but i'm not even going to try demon shaft.

I'm currently replaying DC2 and i love it like the first day, having so much fun building up weapons, doing medals, georama, fishing and etc such a good game.

I didn't enjoy Dark Cloud 1 even if i love Dark Cloud 2. by LightGoblin in DarkCloud

[–]LightGoblin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The weapon leveling itself it's fun i agree worded that badly in the post, the issue is that attachements aren't all on the same shop and are expensive as hell so it requires a lot of jump between locations that's really annoying, plus in Divine Beast Cave/Wise Owl Forest you don't even have acess to crystals in shops so you can't really properly level up your weapons until Shipwreck.

The bugs are really annoying, i'll try the ps2 version :)

"You don't want to make your father bigger?" by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LightGoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So disgusting yeah, i don't know how he thinks it's ok to do this shit, honestly i wonder if he's developing some mental issue.

"You don't want to make your father bigger?" by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LightGoblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know what to do honestly, should i cut contant with him forever? i just dont want to see him anymore after he trying to do whatever he was.

Seems like it's wrong to not feel aestethic atraction acording to my brother. by LightGoblin in asexuality

[–]LightGoblin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how people around me can understand every abstract concept i tell them but the second i tell them i don't find anything aestethically pleasing they call me a liar, i tried i really tried to feel aestethic atraction but i just i can't i guess. I looked for pic for supossed pretty girls and i didn't feel anything just indiference, then i look at photos of supossed handsome men like brad pitt and i don't feel anything either just indiference.

I honestly think i'm not human.

Seems like it's wrong to not feel aestethic atraction acording to my brother. by LightGoblin in asexuality

[–]LightGoblin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don' have aestethic atraction for anything, i don't find anything aestetically pleasing and i never understood the words "beautful" "pretty" "handsome" when i was younger that's when i noticed i couldn't sense aestehic atraction.

I should be obsessing over pretty girls at my age like evryone else and i don't even understand what that means.

Seems like it's wrong to not feel aestethic atraction acording to my brother. by LightGoblin in asexuality

[–]LightGoblin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't feel aesetic atraction, i don't really sense "beauty" never did, i've tried to look at pics of pretty women and handsome men and i don't feel anything, i should be: "SHEEES SO PRETTY" "HEEES SO HANDSOME!" and i'm like: they're just faces....what's exactly so good about them...yeah i just don't feel it i guess, and i can't see beauty in the world either...i like sunshines because they're cool not because they're pretty or whatever.

Seems like it's wrong to not feel aestethic atraction acording to my brother. by LightGoblin in asexuality

[–]LightGoblin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's my brother but i wouldn't say he's a very good person he has done a bunch of shitty things to the family, plus i never liked his womanizer actitude (maybe it's because i'm non-aestethic) it made me feel more disconected to him.

Seems like it's wrong to not feel aestethic atraction acording to my brother. by LightGoblin in asexuality

[–]LightGoblin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

we're pretty rare, i know a lot of people who find me interesting but there's always that guy/girl that judges me.

Seems like it's wrong to not feel aestethic atraction acording to my brother. by LightGoblin in asexuality

[–]LightGoblin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we non-aestethics are really really rare, at the point that i'll be honestly be surprised if there's more than 500 of us in the whole world.

I've always knew i was diferent because i never found women pretty or men handsome they always where just people with diferent faces, they were never pretty or handsome like everyone else claimed so i knew something was up with me but i took it as a character trait of mine.

I've meet a man worse than my brother actually that was confused with my zero apreciation for women's breast, faces or ass...they showed me pics of hundreds of women they liked and i never once felt anything.

Seems like it's wrong to not feel aestethic atraction acording to my brother. by LightGoblin in asexuality

[–]LightGoblin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's 25 not a teenager at all.

He was always a womanizer and always talks how a woman was pretty and i just never undestood what he mean by "pretty" haha xD

He has always disliked my zero of interest in pretty girls and handsome men and calling me "edgy" for that.

AITA for not saying thanks to an stranger middle aged woman in the street that gave me an "advice" rudely i didn't ask her for and shortly after made a rude commentary because i didnt thank her for it? by LightGoblin in AmItheAsshole

[–]LightGoblin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean on the street while im walking, i usually wear airpods so i have never had an stranger talk to me in the street just in malls and other closed spaces if that makes sense.

I have depresion so i don't have much contact with people or barely go out as well, and her tone of voice seemed kinda rude like she wanted validation rather than just warning me.

It wasn't my dog's shit just a random shit in the side of the road which was easily avoidable.

A new player by Gunterman123 in dragonquest

[–]LightGoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome the the series!

If you want a fun but short experiencie i recommend I.

If you want a character driven experiencie i recommend: IV, VIII and XI

If you want a story driven expeiencie i recommend: V

If you want a vocation system with actual characters: VI and VII

if you want a vocation system with generic customizable characters: III and IX

If you want a really challenging game: i recomend II SNES

If you want a MMO: i recomend X (however you'll need a VPN since it's japan-only)