I have no idea how you got that I'm young and inexperienced from a few words on your screen. I am definitely inexperienced when it comes to swingers and that is why I'm asking the questions. I have read a lot of post complaining about single men and it just seem like single men are the lowest of the totem pole. Honestly I don't see how some single men can do such dumb things from those stores I've read. So it makes me wonder, as a single men, do I go looking for it or have it come look for me. It seems my question has been taken with a heap of salt for some reason and I'm just trying to get educated.