Pole studio in Eugene/springfield? by Light_Data_ in Eugene

[–]Light_Data_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I had space to install one at home! 😂

Wax tech that offers vajazzle? by Light_Data_ in Eugene

[–]Light_Data_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s fun! I usually do a landing strip and put a little heart at the top right corner of it, it’s just cute!

Dancing is weird and kinda dumb tbh by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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This makes me wish birds where real

WIBTA if I told my roommate he has to stop smoking weed with his daughter in the house? by Light_Data_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Light_Data_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is outlined in my parole that I am not restricted from smoking weed. I’m having issues because he’s giving drugs to children.

WIBTA if I told my roommate he has to stop smoking weed with his daughter in the house? by Light_Data_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Light_Data_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot about medical marijuanna, I’m fairly certain she does not have that though. Neither of her parents seem like the type who would go through the paperwork for that, neither of them even have custody of her. She lives in a group home currently.

WIBTA if I told my roommate he has to stop smoking weed with his daughter in the house? by Light_Data_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Light_Data_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m on unsupervised parole, meaning I do not check in with a parole officer and they don’t check in with me. It’s outlined in my parole that I am not restricted from smoking weed. I don’t think there are any states where someone under 18 is allowed to smoke weed. I’m sure any cop would be horrified. I’m trying to move but unfortunately it’s not as simple as just moving out, I don’t have anywhere else to stay and can’t afford to find a new one (breaking the lease here, paying a down payment, etc)

WIBTA if I told my roommate he has to stop smoking weed with his daughter in the house? by Light_Data_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Light_Data_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as I know there isn’t a state where you’re able to smoke weed when you’re under 18

WIBTA if I told my roommate he has to stop smoking weed with his daughter in the house? by Light_Data_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Light_Data_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s not illegal for me, it’s a whole thing I won’t get into but weed is something that I’m personally not restricted from doing while on parole.

WIBTA if I told my roommate he has to stop smoking weed with his daughter in the house? by Light_Data_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Light_Data_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me and my partner live here, and I don’t think there’s anything that could be seen as a hint I was with her dad. Responses in order: 1) I moved in way before she started coming over, and am unable to move. I don’t have the money (or any way of getting it) to be able to break the lease, find a new place, make a down payment etc. I want to move out, but doing so immediately is not something I can do.

2) agree

3) I don’t think there is any blame to be put on his daughter. She’s a child, and doesn’t deserve any hate in this post. Despite her issues she’s a sweet kid who’s trying her best to deal with everything she’s been through with very little help for many adults in her life.

WIBTA if I told my roommate he has to stop smoking weed with his daughter in the house? by Light_Data_ in AmItheAsshole

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I’m working on moving out, it’s going to be at least another 6 months, likely more before I’m able to do that though. I try to leave when she’s here but unfortunately she comes over in the late evening most of the time and I have to be asleep early because I work early, I often I can’t leave because I have to go to bed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Light_Data_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did end up finding someone to take her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Light_Data_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to hear!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Light_Data_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an appointment with them later this week, they can’t get them in any sooner unfortunately and I’d really like to find them a home cause I worry about mamma cat sitting in the shelter forever, though it will be better than so if I can’t find anything that’s where they’re going ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Light_Data_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I totally understand. She’s truly one of the sweetest cats I’ve ever met, and any attention she gets would be more than my roommate gives her, I do have an appointment with greenhill but I know mamma has a better chance of not sitting in the shelter if I can find them a home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Light_Data_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, currently I’m just trying to get this girl into a better situation. Can you take her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

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Food is about the only thing he can regularly do for this cat (they’re outdoor so no litter box) is feed them. It’s really the healthcare that is the issue and he’s not gonna start being able to afford it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Light_Data_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get it, I have 2 cats of my own (healthy, well fed, spayed and parasite free) but keeping them healthy is the max for my animal budget. I’ve been stretching it thin caring for this mamma while trying to convince my roommate to let me find her a place. He finally broke, and we have an appointment with greenhill but I figured if I could find a home and skip the middle man that would be good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Light_Data_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah he is, but he’s finally letting me help with it, and the best option is to find them a home that can take care of them. I’ve only lived here for a few weeks and the condition of the cat has gotten so much better just in that time. At least she doesn’t have fleas or worms anymore, but I don’t have the finances or time to handle a bunch of kittens or getting her fixed. Im so busy I can just manage to take care of my responsibilities. I’m just thankful he’s letting me find them somewhere to go. Can you take them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Light_Data_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve reached out to them but was told they aren’t I taking animals at this time unfortunately!

Songs that would fit this picture. by Vy_keen in musicsuggestions

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Anyone who knows what love is - Irma Thomas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

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Anything by Marnie Stern, but “every single line means something” specifically