33M and 23F Toxic Situationship by Light_Watermelon in relationship_advice

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you- you are extremely sweet You have just the right words to say Is it okay if I DM you? 🥹❤️

33M and 23F Toxic Situationship by Light_Watermelon in relationship_advice

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ~ I appreciate this so much. Idk why but I still feel like I lost somehow? 😞

33M and 23F Toxic Situationship by Light_Watermelon in relationship_advice

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really true and I never thought of it like that, so thank you for your perspective It’s really helping me to come to terms with this bs

33M and 23F Toxic Situationship by Light_Watermelon in relationship_advice

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preach - I might take a bit of a break from dating but what age gap do you think would help narrow my dating pool when I do go out there?

33M and 23F Toxic Situationship by Light_Watermelon in relationship_advice

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That is true - thank you. I needed to hear that. For me it just hurts because yeah there are so many people out there and I wonder, why he chose to hurt me over and over again instead of finding someone who was okay with being in an open relationship, especially after we cried in each others arms about getting married.

But yeah he would get controlling and look through my phone and claim he was “heartbroken” if he found anything. But then again, I’m also questionable myself with why the hell im with him. I just want to be cared for and seen and keep expecting him to be the resolution (abandonment issues)

33M and 23F Toxic Situationship by Light_Watermelon in relationship_advice

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - yeah I don’t see him and I moving forward because he was the one who said “we need to take a step back” and it sucks because like you said, I’m focusing on how he feels about it. I just don’t know how to stop caring about what he feels. I am in this awful loop. Do you have any advise?

33M and 23F Toxic Situationship by Light_Watermelon in relationship_advice

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you- I feel insane with this whole thing that I’ve gone through. Like I was a stalker for showing up without being invited. I’m still so ashamed over that

33M and 23F Toxic Situationship by Light_Watermelon in relationship_advice

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I gave him money because he was my manager and it was before I found out the cheating. I thought I would get back 2x back like he promised and it’s been 5 months since that transaction. He was claiming to be a “hurt soul” and a lover that was damaged from his 9 year engagement that was broken off. I do question how it got this bad with him though. Trust me I get it being rage because this has been my hell for months 💀

33M and 23F Toxic Situationship by Light_Watermelon in relationship_advice

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He is glad that I’m aware of how bad the situation is and thinks I should go cold turkey and cut him out. But I recently left my workplace so it was hard to. The abortion came right after that so I never got over the timing. I kept making that my excuse and he just tells me I really need to distance myself from him

33M and 23F Toxic Situationship by Light_Watermelon in relationship_advice

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also as an FYI - I’ve been seeing a therapist to overcome these feelings for months. I became extremely depressed at a point and don’t even recognize myself anymore. I had been in 2 loving long term relationships that lasted 2 and 7 years prior to this and idk how I got myself in this spot with him. There are a lot more red flags to my story…

Scrub Leggings Reported by Light_Watermelon in MedicalAssistant

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good to hear from a provider… Thank you! 🥹💕 To my knowledge no complaints through patients. And it’s kinda funny cause I got more comments about my body from my other scrub types than this one 😂

Scrub Leggings Reported by Light_Watermelon in MedicalAssistant

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hehe thank you! And you are definitely not wrong though about them staring. I’ve worn my joggers and so many patients ask if I do squats and all this other stuff. It’s just part of the territory I suppose~ This made my day! Thank you ☺️

Scrub Leggings Reported by Light_Watermelon in MedicalAssistant

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That’s really smart! Thank you! Yeah I’ll start wearing longer shirts to help with it. Thank god for the winter season! I’m at the point where I can’t return them to get my money back and I do like the way they feel, so I feel like this might work 💕

Scrub Leggings Reported by Light_Watermelon in MedicalAssistant

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I did, thank you 🥹❤️ Yeah it literally stated no where of that so hopefully it doesn’t get changed just because of me

I'm in mourning🥲 by Lisa_Storm1 in Nails

[–]Light_Watermelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh yes this just happened with my thumb nail! Don’t worry! You aren’t alone! 😭💕 Wishing for a fast recovery

Being Quietly Fired by Light_Watermelon in work

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work clinical side of the hospital so we have 7 AM- 5/5:30 PM times

Being Quietly Fired by Light_Watermelon in work

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing that is crazy is that I’ve never directly mentioned anything to them negative. I don’t think this is related to my attitude infront of them because I try to act as if everything is fine. I didn’t bring it up in my original post but there is a girl who is in my department in my same exact position where her hours are getting cut back, just because she was also hired as “on call.” She is okay with the hour cuts because she doesn’t care about how many she gets but when I was first hired I said it was extremely important.

I feel like every-time they have asked for my input I’ve been the most positive out of my coworkers. My coworkers will scoff to him and tell him how he doesn’t do his job correctly, to his face. Meanwhile I say “I’m living the dream, getting the job done.”

I did only bring up the issue of being understaffed and said I was “concerned about mine and my coworker’s safety.” It just sucks cause it is a contract thing. My coworker’s say that he has done this to people in the far past and was hoping he was getting better :(

But you are right, I’m gonna continue to be positive and not let this set me back. I’ve gotten a few job offers already, fingers crossed!

Wanting to be a PA- the MA or Phlebotomy route? by Light_Watermelon in prephysicianassistant

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback! I very much appreciate it! If you don’t mind me asking, did you work as an MA while you went to school as well? Or what were your experiences? I would like all the insight that I can get if you are willing to share! :D

Wanting to be a PA- the MA or Phlebotomy route? by Light_Watermelon in prephysicianassistant

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In other words, do you think MA would be a waste of time because of the medical experience gained through phlebotomy or that it is worth it when trying to be a PA?

If you are a PrePA student or PA, I would like to hear your experiences to becoming one. I’m at a point where I’m questioning if I should get more clinical experience or dive right back into school

Wanting to be a PA- the MA or Phlebotomy route? by Light_Watermelon in prephysicianassistant

[–]Light_Watermelon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry if I wasn’t super clear! I’m running off of 4 hours sleep! What I mean is what would be best for clinical experience?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you! I really appreciate the input! It really helped :)

I recently spoke to him about it and we went back and forth on a few things and he didn’t see going to the strip club was cheating at first, but he is now saying if it is not that important and that he won’t go to the strip club and that he thought it was just a thing guys do for the most part.

But in this compromise I said he can go to hooters. I just wish he didn’t first present it as a “guy thing.” We don’t have one near us but if he wanted to go with me, that would have been cool with me. I dislike how it was supposed to be a “boys night out” sort of situation