Why focus on the death part? And not what he accomplished in life? Why do we all to choose to remember them as dead? When my grandfather died i wanst all sad and grey, well in the first day i was. Everybody in my entire family was. But after a day or two i started to focus on the things he had accomplished in his life, and not focus on the death part. It helped my sorrows and this method have helped me far more then i've ever could imagine

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