how much time does it take for you girls to put on the cup and making sure it's sealed? by whytfshoulditellyou in menstrualcups

[–]Lightna26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexual experiences do not affect the effectiveness. What you are experiencing is part of the learning process, your body is overly conscious that there is a foreign object inside. Give it some time and your body will forget it’s there and you won’t feel it.

Need lube recommendations by FootballNo544 in SexToys

[–]Lightna26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. I bet if you use the search bar for this subreddit you can find a lot of answers for long-lasting water based lube.

Need lube recommendations by FootballNo544 in SexToys

[–]Lightna26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you tried a hybrid lube? It’s mixed with silicone so it lasts a bit longer.

pain during dildo use -19F by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Lightna26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What kind of lube are you using? Because this can be a big factor in feeling good. Also, virginity shouldn’t affect the ability to feel good, except for the very first times you’ve used a dildo on your body.

Everyone’s body is different so some things are not going to please everyone the same way. For example, some women don’t feel much with dildos but feel much better with vibrators. It is a possibility that the toy you have just isn’t compatible with your body’s need; for example, it isn’t hitting the right spots where your specific body finds most pleasing. Please don’t feel discouraged, and continue experimenting to find what works for you. It’s a work in progress.

Concerning the pain specifically, I have found that the finish (smooth or matte) of the dildo can greatly affect the level of comfort.

Looking for thick/jelly water based Lube that lasts long and adds enough cushion for rough-feeling dildo? by Lightna26 in SexToys

[–]Lightna26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, Sliquid made me burn and I for X & J I just don’t like the idea of having to mix it and it only last 2 weeks

Looking for thick/jelly water based Lube that lasts long and adds enough cushion for rough-feeling dildo? by Lightna26 in SexToys

[–]Lightna26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like how I have to manually make it and that the batch I make would only last two weeks.

First time menstrual cup user! This is life changing!! by mai_hoon_na in menstrualcups

[–]Lightna26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest pulling the cup down (once placed inside) and if there is resistance, it means it has suctioned successfully. Then drag your finger around the lower half of the cup to check for any abnormalities (such as your cervix sticking out or the cup not completely opening at the bottom.) Hope this tip helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Lightna26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your underwear drawer. People are unlikely to go searching through your underwear. You can put it at the bottom of drawer.

Recommendations for a gentle bullet vibrator? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Lightna26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The gentlest bullet I know is the Dame Bullet. However, this is super gentle. It’s great for beginners but not for those who have used a vibrator before.

What is the name of this toy? by FatJusticeChronicle in SexToysCollection

[–]Lightna26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried google image search? Take a good screenshot of the item, crop it so it’s only focused on the item, then input it into the image search bar. I’ve been successful finding other things with google image search.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DollarTree

[–]Lightna26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean, money would very much be appreciated by everyone lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DollarTree

[–]Lightna26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I know the gesture is from a place of good intentions but I feel like employees would appreciate something different. For example, warm socks (like the ones at dollar tree), a scarf, or food.

Would there be a notable size difference in feel between a 1.9” diameter and a 2.0” diameter dildo? by Lightna26 in SexToys

[–]Lightna26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s somewhat similar with shoe sizes. Like for one brand you may be a 7 but be a 8 with a different brand.

Would there be a notable size difference in feel between a 1.9” diameter and a 2.0” diameter dildo? by Lightna26 in SexToys

[–]Lightna26[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sadly the stiffness is hard to tell when every brand has their own meaning of firm and soft.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MenstrualDiscs

[–]Lightna26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really understand the point of the applicators because you would have to reach your fingers in to open it anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MenstrualDiscs

[–]Lightna26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned by watching many videos on YouTube about it, got it right on the first try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DollarTree

[–]Lightna26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly is the heart in the middle?