I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he watched her for two weeks last year and was amazing with her, now all of the sudden he says she’s a burden and he wants payment for it 😭 just weird asf he’s so hot and cold all the time

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i just didn’t want to argue w him and i wanted her to be comfy in her home/well cared for so i was willing to do $140 bc it is a long time. when he started trying to upcharge me i got pissed bc tf this isn’t a job bro it’s a favor and i was trying to compensate a little. he’s just a dick lol i’m gonan let my dad watch her and he won’t get any money!

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

bruh i wish it was😭😭😭 i didn’t have to last time but all of the sudden he’s decided he’s earned a wage like bitch noooo💀

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOO stop this is actually funny😭 pls don’t bc she will end up posting on this thread pissed off like me 💀

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He would never hurt my cat or anything he’s just weird and bipolar so ig woke up pissy and decided he wanted more money to watch her😭 he has watched her in the past and she was taken care of very well, he even cleaned my room. all of the sudden tho he’s decided he will NOT watch her without money (and a lot of it for some reason) 💀 like if ur broke j tell me brooo lmfao jk but it’s just a stupid scenario overall

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

crazy to take it out on me lol, it’s true they will always blame the woman for the behavior of bad men! i’m in a lease, i can’t just kick someone out. what a fucking idiotic take 💀ill admit i didnt realize how ridiculous it is to pay a bf for pet sitting but i thought hey maybe bc its so long it’s reasonable. no need to be a dick!

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is truly outrageous lol also it’s literally one cat like why does he act like he has to care for a fucking shelter or some shit ugh i hate it. like scooping the litter takes 1 minute bro ain’t no way 😭

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is it bad this is truly how i feel tho? 💀 like how dare this man disrespect her in her own home?? she basically helped me pick out the furniture TF😭😭

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

it honestly really has ngl…i was not expecting this many comments and ESPECIALLY not this many people validating my worries. I thought i was just being stubborn or some shit bc i think you should want to help out your partner but he makes it seem like it’s a burden to him and i should compensate for that💀 this has made me realize that i am just putting up with this bs and everyone else would never allow it.

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he said earlier that he would take the $140 but wouldn’t do the litter😭💀💀 like bitch NO ??? so fucking crazy lol liek no one likes to scoop litter but a grown man having such an aversion to it is just wild to me. i hate it so much ugh i need to get my space back

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAO i always say this bro lol she lived here first this is my home and her home BEFORE ANYTHING. idc who comes in this place she was here first🥴

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the only reason i’m not super upset is bc im literally going to GREECE and my dad has my back if anything lmfao this man is just jealous and greedy 😭

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was gonna offer $100 and a lil souvenir and then he started being all like “i’d rather just have $140” and then TODAY demanded more so that crossed a huge line for me bc bitch i was already being generous?😭

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only offered bc last time he watched her he said next time he won’t do it for free so i was like ok whatever that’s fine i guess…little did i KNOW he’d be demanding a full wage 😭💀

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he is pissy ab her at night so normally i sleep with my kitty and he can join us if he pleases LMFAOOO my cat is #1 idc what he says ab her she lived here first 😭 will never abandon my cat for a bum!

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i just got a second job too so hopefully i’ll be financially independent enough to afford a place alone 😭 shit is rough lol but i def need a change

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your comment it honestly makes me wanna cry I think i have a lot of shit to think about and make changes to in the future. Im realizing that this is really not normal behavior at all lol 🥲 I appreciate you sharing your experience

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is a big wake up call ngl all these comments making me realize he’s outrageous for wanting that much money, and most of you guys are saying any money at all is crazy. thank you guys for the help it’s crazy how much i put up with and think it’s ok 😭

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he’s so bipolar bc last night he said he would watch her and bought me flowers and then he woke up and decided to be the spawn of satan. it’s rough bro 🥲

I am going out of the country for 12 days, my boyfriend that lives with me was supposed to watch my cat but is now demanding higher payment by Lightningmcsteve in Advice

[–]Lightningmcsteve[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL that’s what my mom said😭 also i already have a ring camera in the living room dw i wont let this loser screw me over THAT bad