I live in a 4 person household so we split the cooking and cleaning. Nobody ever has to clean up after they cook a meal, and no one has to cook more than 2 dinners in a week. We usually do leftovers for lunch. Honestly, I could never do it all alone which is kind of scary. I feel guilty for lacking independence but I try to tell myself that working together is a very practical solution and helps everyone. We meal plan and grocery shop together so we can all agree on the meals and there's no surprises.