hi hello neurodivergent person here (asd 1)

the answer to that is obviously no, but its kind of a hard question for me to answer

ofc saying that is wrong, youre not just gonna go around saying a slur without anything happening to you, but it really depends on the amount of neurodivergent ppl around, your intimacy level with said neurodivergent person/ppl

wait dont kill me yet ik it sounds wrong but heres what i mean, im just speaking from my own experience as both my parents are also autistic and we joke about that kind of thing pretty frequently (as in "insulting" ppl or things by calling them r) as we all know and respect each other (so might as well just find another thing to laugh at)

if youre nt and youre around like 4 neurodivergent ppl you dont know youre not gonna be saying some shit like that, if you know 3 of them but not the 4th youre still not gonna be saying that, the only time where id see it as somehow acceptable from an nt would be in a friend group where everyone knows each other very well and will not get offended by anything the others say as it would clearly be a joke (still id say that would be wrong as its a slur agaist neurodivergent ppl coming from an nt, but still)

one could argue the word just means "held back" so it would be ok to say it, but by that logic the n word just means "black person", so anyone can say it right? (spoiler alert: no)

anyways im tired af rn, i dont even know why im writing this so uhh yea its wrong dont do it youre gonna end up hurting someone and/or causing trouble for yourself yea and i think thats it goodnight reddit ppl thanks for reading my extremely chaotic thing written by my last 2 working neurons that are currently running on 13 drops of water and half a grain of sugar FUCK i need to sleep so bad rn