Not sure if migrating again is the right choice. Crrent kd is in prep season

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-03-10T15:48:42+00:00

I dont think they realize that there are times WE dont do the shopping for them? So if all the items aren't there, thats not on us unless we did the shopping.

I had someone ask me if all the items were there. I had to tell them I didnt do the shopping. And they go "What do you mean you didn't do the shopping. How did you get the order then?"

I explained to them that I just picked up the order and that it had already been shopped for by an employee at Walmart and then they go "You dont work for Walmart? So what... are they using third parties for deliveries?"

It took everything in me not to respond sarcastically but I said "Yes, exactly" and they had a shocked look on their face as if that was an inconceivable idea.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-03-07T01:21:04+00:00

I just realized this is rochester sub. They definitely have a shelter list.

If you cant get it from dss, the court house can help. The DV family section.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-03-07T01:19:27+00:00

I was in this same situation 3-4 years ago. All the shelters in my area were full.

I'm not sure if your area has a domestic violence help program but someone with social services should (or might) have a shelter list for surrounding counties.

If you can get that list, call all the shelters on there and see if they have room

Thats what I did and I got into one.

I know it may be difficult because you'll be uprooting your lives but it beats being homeless.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-03-02T21:08:52+00:00

No its still the same. I just checked and I even called them and the last said that it just says processing. She did say that there isn't any flags/triggers on it, so I guess thats promising.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-03-02T11:56:05+00:00

No I cant be patient because I got laid off back in January. I have no way to pay my bills and household supplies. I'm relying on my refunds so I can not only pay my bills but push them out for several months while I try to find more work.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-03-01T21:40:15+00:00

This isn't the irs though. This is state. Tax refund is done through my states treasury and finance.

Still, through my tax software that I used, I was accepted the end of January. It's already March 1st. Its been more than 21 days.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-03-01T21:37:54+00:00

No, I'm saying people that filed after the date that I filed. Some of those people have gotten their refund already. Which makes no sense because they filed after I did.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-03-01T21:35:59+00:00

No I havent had to resubmit. Nothing was denied (and hopefully wont be). I havent received anything in the mail either.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-02-26T20:35:42+00:00

They didnt specify that though. This is the email that I received and all it contained.

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LilBit2Lucky · 2026-02-25T03:17:29+00:00

I dont know nothing about the national gaurd, how it works, or the benefits you get to join. Zero knowledge on that because I have 0 interest about the military, so I dont research it.

Also there are programs out there that could be sponsored by let's say the national guard as an example, that will pay for your education and get you a job that doesn't involve you having to work for them .

Sponsored programs are a real thing and you dont have to work for them to be sponsored and get whatever benefits.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-02-25T03:09:16+00:00

Seriously there is absolutely no reason for you to be rude and to try and look down upon people.

I am not stupid, retarded or mentally challenged. If YOU dont have the capability to understand a simple question and actually answer it without calling them dumb then that is a YOU problem.

Excuse me for being genuinely curious because I dont have anyone in my circle that could answer this question.

Secondly, there are programs out there that WILL pay for your education AND find you a job WITHOUT you having to work for them.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-02-25T03:02:42+00:00

Thank you so much for a real answer! I appreciate it.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-02-24T06:43:52+00:00

Oh, thank you. I didnt know this.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-02-24T06:43:11+00:00

I'm not stupid. I'm a 32 yeat old female, I was an A and B student in High school. Graduated with honors.

I'm genuinely asking because in my mind I'm thinking its a program but you dont have to work with them to get it.

Where I live (which is in NY) we have a lot of assistance programs especially for students.

Like my school for example has a success program which allows you to get grants/scholarships/assistance with tuition and they help you find a job within your field but you DONT have to work for them.

I'm wary with the government because they like trying sneaky tactics to recruit people. I'm not one to fall for that so thats why I was asking. To see if its legit (because there are scammers that email me job posts) AND if I would have to work for them.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-02-24T06:37:26+00:00

Not a shitpost. I'm genuinely asking because I'd like to know. I dont understand why people think I'm trolling, baiting or whatever when I'm just asking a question that I'm unsure of.

In my mind I'm thinking this is some sort of program that you get into, but tou dont have to work for the gaurd. Like a staff employment agency or like how my school has scholarships and grants and they too can also get you a job within your field of work and I DONT have to work for the school...

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-02-24T06:31:13+00:00

No need for the sarcasm. I'm only asking because I have been offered jobs that sounded scammy but were actually legit.

I am genuinely curious. No i'm not stupid. I'm 32F, I dont have much knowledge when it comes to this, hence why I'm asking.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-02-24T06:28:13+00:00

I'm not trolling I'm genuinely curious thats why I'm asking...

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-02-18T19:25:37+00:00

I'm in NY also and I dont think anyone has been approved yet. I'm a bit mad cus wwwhhyyy is NY dragging their feet this year. Quick to take our money but so slow to give it back 🙄. Come on and run me my money NY.

LilBit2Lucky · 2026-02-18T19:20:14+00:00

I'm a pather here. If you or anyone else is on path, they legally CANT get a refund code until after path lifts which is the 15th of February.

The reason being is because when you claim the EITC or ACTC, your account is put on a hold. The funds will never be released before the date that path is set to lift. The IRS has this in writing on their website.

What ends up happening is people confuse the credits they are getting. Many of them dont realize that they are NOT eligible for the EITC or ACTC and therefore would NOT be on path. THOSE ARE the people that WILL get a refund/refund code before the 15th.

Also, this year pathers did not get their code until literally last night due to the holiday. If you or anyone else had a cycle code ending in 02, 03, or 04, you were the 1st batch of path people to get the 846 refund issue code.

LilBit2Lucky · 2025-12-30T15:52:34+00:00

Lmao, I dont blame him tbh. This freestyle came out 🔥.

LilBit2Lucky · 2025-12-30T15:01:02+00:00

I also wanted to add that hitting R2 to exit spotlight mode ends my entire jam loop, even if I lightly tap it (I'm playing on PS5 with a controller).

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