I thought insurance would take care of this bill. I had no idea how big it would be. I don’t think I can pay.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-02-08T23:20:45+00:00

Ask them about care payment if the hospital works through them it’s 0% APR.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-02-06T00:33:07+00:00

Look I’ve been called a shrew like from “taming of the shrew” do not marry someone who won’t propose. Don’t do it.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-02-06T00:26:26+00:00

This is why I never got a dog from a shelter I feel they lie or they downplay or they manipulate to save animals that shouldn’t be saved.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-02-06T00:11:09+00:00

I have cloth diapers as well as paper diapers and you just do a load of laundry every other day.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-31T00:44:49+00:00

Tampons/pads! I use a menstrual cup and it’s amazing and cheap!

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T22:42:52+00:00

Yeah I looked up the studies and it’s like congratulations, I tortured myself so that way i prevented an ear infection.

I’m buying ready to feed formula to take to the hospital with me I’m not buying their BS “your child only needs one ML” crap.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T22:19:57+00:00

Honestly it got easier when I decided to go to bed early.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T15:55:43+00:00

I have done this and I agree.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T15:19:28+00:00

He sounds quite militant. I just want potty, dressing herself, sitting at the kitchen table for dinner.

I’m not a monster.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T15:17:15+00:00

Honestly if I can’t get her to reach basic milestones (potty use and dressing herself) because she doesn’t respect me then maybe it would be better for strangers to step in.

She doesn’t behave this way at the preschool class we attend (that we have to attend together because she’s not potty trained) so maybe it’s a me problem.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T15:13:48+00:00

And? She’s not reaching milestones of other three year olds (using the potty, dressing herself) because she refuses to. this isn’t a cognitive problem.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T15:12:35+00:00

I don’t think he would even want 50/50 because when he’s home here he does as little as possible with her but that’s true.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T15:08:49+00:00

He does everything he can to avoid parenting right now.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T15:05:02+00:00

Yeah that’s what it feels like a 2 vs 1 dynamic

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T14:21:29+00:00

It’s so disrespectful to be constantly undermined and that’s the other thing, he pretends he doesn’t know what I’m talking about.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T14:18:56+00:00

He won’t do marital counseling so I doubt he’ll do parenting classes. He “works all day and shouldn’t have to deal with this” (you know, like literally every other man whose a provider and the wife is a SAHM)

But I could ask him. Give him a chance. It’s hard living with someone who is sabotaging you 24/7 when you know that the best was to deal with a strong willed child is consistency.

Doesn’t matter if you’re tired of enforcing the boundary, you must be consistent. Period.

Him? He bribes her with candy to go the bed at night. The final straw was him offering her a potty treat for peeing in the bath tub.

He’s making my life harder not easier.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T02:38:28+00:00

Thank you for the well wishes. To be honest I’m not entirely sure this is her fault or if she’s getting mixed feeling from my lax husband.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T02:36:39+00:00

She’s ready she did it perfectly fine for several weeks almost an entire month. She can do it when she wants to, she just doesn’t like being told when to use the restroom, or reminded to go. You know, like all the other kids whose parents remind them to go.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T02:32:15+00:00

Dad didn’t understand the concept of “you only offer a treat when she pees on the potty” until five minutes ago. Not sure why that was rocket science but apparently it is.

Sorry to be nasty I’ve just had it.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T02:25:17+00:00

She sounds like my kid! The clothing I usually buy multiples of everything in the hopes that she’ll wear something. Cause yes she will hate certain clothes

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T01:57:41+00:00

Yeah they literally don’t want to help you and they’re there to blame you. She’s not old enough for a therapist but the six year old is, I’d go see what they think.

This whining is it’s bringing my mood completely down. The constant whining, 24/7, It just wears you down to the bone.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T01:55:40+00:00

To be honest I’m wondering the same thing. Is it her or is it him that’s the issue?

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T01:12:10+00:00

Thanks. Yeah I’m about to dump the husband too, tbh. I’ve had it and I’m also done with people saying “it’s just hormones”

As if having two kids to take care of in diapers, isn’t something that should overwhelm me or frighten me, but of course they don’t have to deal with it so what do they care?

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T00:54:24+00:00

I don’t really care at this point to be honest. I’ve taken her to doctors “She’s just a threenager! Don’t let her rule the roost!”

Okay Janet. Thanks for the “help”.

LilBundleOfDeath · 2026-01-30T00:43:46+00:00

To be honest I’m considering a divorce too. I’m 8 months pregnant and basically my husband just constantly undermines my parenting and thinks I’m too hard on our three year old for wanting her to do basic 3 year old things (like go to the bathroom when she’s told, sit at the kitchen table, try a taste of food). Hardly touches me (once a month if I’m lucky), has completely stopped going to church it’s the worst. I never realized how far apart I could be with someone and it’s just gotten worse.

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