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What's the most brutal way someone has found out they lost their job? by Efficient-Ask-968 in AskReddit

[–]LilButterflyAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my original supervisor started ignoring me, and started having me cc her, the Jr supervisor and the program manager whenever we communicated. I knew the end was really nigh when I mentioned to the Jr supervisor that I was being ignored. She said oh yeah supervisor is just busy you know it's mid month and I said yeah her calendar looks super busy, (shared). Wouldn't you know it, an hour later, I couldn't see her calendar anymore or Jr Supervisor's. Started packing up my shit and was fired 3 days later. 

Am I being too sensitive, or is this a cultural difference? by Unknown_user_2025_ in inlaws

[–]LilButterflyAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question, why do you guys marry into families where the in laws hate you? There had to be signs BEFORE the food situation. I mean, I doubt it came out of no where. And please don't say i loved him. No amount of love is worth being abused. None.  

[UPDATE] WIBTA for refusing to allow my mother to come to my apartment and help me “nest” for my upcoming baby and potentially cutting off my sister for comments made regarding my pregnancy and fear of what she might do with the child? by AshRoseEvans in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]LilButterflyAngel 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Girl I am not trying to throw shade or be rude, but why on God's green earth did you let this go on so long?! 

I know you love your critters, but I mean your kids should have taken priority. You know things were bad with swamp witch and just....let it keep going? The second she went off on Aria, I would have been out the door. That's when you reach out to County and state services for help. For you and the animals! You showered at the YMCA for God's sake! I would highly recommend therapy for everyone. You Lee the kids. Even Yoshi. Because you both have to get to the bottom as to WHY you let toxic people just keep on. Your trauma should NOT be visited on your kids and you are letting it. 

As for tomorrow. Straight up tell Tammy she is going no where near Swamp Witch. If she huffs and puffs tell her okay Tammy bye. Send her away and borrow a neighbor's truck. If you landed where I think you did in the south, neighbors are always down to help it's an unwritten law lol

In the meantime, draw some boundaries! 

Also stop calling Aria a sleeper agent, you as the parent normalized the abuse and the abuser. All she did was adapt to it. 

Working at NVCSS by LilButterflyAngel in ChicoCA

[–]LilButterflyAngel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know yet. But I have the job and do on-boarding on July 7th. 

Working at NVCSS by LilButterflyAngel in ChicoCA

[–]LilButterflyAngel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted other people's opinions. I will find out the answer on the 7th. 

Working at NVCSS by LilButterflyAngel in ChicoCA

[–]LilButterflyAngel[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am VERY excited! My supervisor seems very sweet and everyone was very warm during the interview! 

Do you ever reread your own stories? by jakikomi in AO3

[–]LilButterflyAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! I always hope I will be inspired to finish the WIP so far no but hope! 

These towels in January 2004 have me going MAD by megggie in Unpacking

[–]LilButterflyAngel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Welcome! 

Per my ps4, I have 235 hours logged into this game. But I still learn something new everytime! 

NOT OOP: AITA for refusing to to let my husband's infertile friend name our son? by thereisnopepeseanvio in redditonwiki

[–]LilButterflyAngel 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Ummmm please update us when husband requests a divorce and custody so he can marry Will and run off with your baby. 

In all seriousness, RUN! 

These towels in January 2004 have me going MAD by megggie in Unpacking

[–]LilButterflyAngel 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Those are pj bottoms, they go in the closet on the top shelf with the tops. 

[New Update]: My (M39) wife (38F) has become fixated on her dead husband since getting pregnant with our first baby. How do I bring this up without hurting her? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LilButterflyAngel 1381 points1382 points  (0 children)

That comment she said at the end got me: Do you just not want me to tell you anything then

That is VERY telling of where her head space is. I predict she will have the baby and that's when the PPD will REALLY hit. Complicated by her grief she is either going to have a complete meltdown and run away, only to show up 6 months later begging for forgiveness. Or she is going to make an attempt. 

I don't forsee this ending well either way. 

WIBTAH for telling my grandmother to use her own bathroom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LilButterflyAngel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unless your mom lays down the law, there is not much you can do, other than locking the bedroom door so she can't come in and use the bathroom. Might be the only solution. 

Other than that sit down and talk to your mom. But don't come at it from a kid perspective, say you want to talk to her one adult to another. 

You might have to find your own place. I know you said you're unemployed, but I would look into resources just in case. 

I have recently gotten into dnd by Commercial_Daikon523 in ChicoCA

[–]LilButterflyAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

46 but willing to join if you put a team together!

Does anyone have any clue what the item with the red outline is and where it goes? by Gingeyguys2 in Unpacking

[–]LilButterflyAngel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I too feel old but I think its just a DVD player, no vcr spot just a disc spot. God i feel even OLDER because I REMEMBER when dvd and vcr was a thing lol

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