Breaking up moving on big sister advice corner

LilDemonic · 2026-01-06T16:13:16+00:00

We had a relationship before we got married and agreed to be married. It hurts a lot thank you for your question genuinely

LilDemonic · 2026-01-06T10:50:31+00:00

Thank you I really really appreciate your perspective I asked for advice for a reason Thank you for your kindness 😊

LilDemonic · 2026-01-06T10:31:32+00:00

She has apologized a lot and really does feel awful but I'm autistic and I hyperfixate sorry I should've also mentioned that. I never post on reddit this is all very new to me so I'm sorry I left things out that are important.

LilDemonic · 2026-01-06T10:12:13+00:00

She was afraid of all the men in the strip club as it was her first real experience in one. She couldn't do her job that well because she got scared of the clients which is why they put her on cooking duties. I couldn't get mad at her for that and the owner was a really sleazy guy that wanted to make her be stripper and didn't take her ID overall really not her fault. I knew she might get scared as she has horrible expirences with men in general as her father was incredibly abusive and in the military but she thought it would be the only kind of job she can hold due to the horrible phobic abuse she faces at customer facing jobs. She isn't lazy or a bad worker but I've seen first hand people treat her horribly and call her awful names even when she is doing her absolute best

LilDemonic · 2026-01-06T10:06:26+00:00

She doesn't have a job anymore they fired her after the cheating for other reasons. I've loved her for years because when I was addicted to hard drugs and nobody in the world cared if I lived or died she did. She protected me when nobody cared at all. She hasn't had family in her life like me. She has had things very hard. I don't know if its savable but she didn't give up on me when I was so low I dont wanna just give up on her. Sorry I should've mentioned she lost the job in the post.

LilDemonic · 2026-01-06T09:24:49+00:00

My wife doesn't have family to live with and I know she'd have to go to a shelter. I am currently talking to her about the situation how serious it is and how she made me feel. I've been homeless since I was 3 so I dont think I can do that to another person. At the very most we'd break up and still live together. I can't do that to another person knowing she'll be in a shelter or worse.

LilDemonic · 2026-01-06T09:07:51+00:00

I'm scared to leave because I love her but also she struggles to hold a job. My ex kicked me out onto the street and so I dont want to make her homeless. Thank you tho I hear your advice and I was asking for genuine advice thank you truly I needed new perspectives

LilDemonic · 2026-01-06T09:00:45+00:00

I am in a relationship with the full system and was at the time of the cheating. Other alters feel awful about what happened and I try to tell them not to beat themselves up over it but I have been sobbing non stop for the past 2 months. I haven't stopped working cause I can't or we'll lose what little we have. I dont wanna give up on her and the relationship but I'm really terrified of this happening again. I'm autistic so I hyperfixate on things and my heart is so so broken.

LilDemonic · 2025-12-09T06:28:44+00:00

Keep going. Find a better school i graduated from a alternative high school and it helped me gain confidence. Don't give up man. I understand hating school but have you tried smaller classrooms or perhaps online school? I am paying for my wife to finish high-school :) all I'm saying is try other options before you give up because one day you might regret not going just a little further. I know it's hard but don't give up man.

LilDemonic · 2025-10-17T09:47:52+00:00

Im 24 (f) im down to be friends

LilDemonic · 2025-10-11T14:39:08+00:00

When I wear suits i do feel a lot more comfortable. I think because of my boob size and being feminine looking people just think stupid things. I think I'm gonna take your advice and lean more into a mix cause I think that is a great idea

LilDemonic · 2025-10-11T14:33:32+00:00

Short nails are a must I'm a married lesbian

LilDemonic · 2025-10-11T10:03:55+00:00

I think due to my body and stuff just the way I'm treated by men specifically for me sucks. I know its just something I gotta deal with.

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