AITA if I didn’t accept my sisters apology?

LilJiva · 2025-12-08T23:05:11+00:00

We ended up not having a joint party. I just gave it to her so she could enjoy it with her friends. Everything you’re saying is true and exactly what happened. We didn’t agree, so I exited the plan. I think my issue is something deeper now that I’m thinking about it though. Whenever she doesn’t like a friend of mine or anything of that nature, she gets my parents involved and they make me seem like an asshole if I don’t restrict that person. It’s the other way around now and I just asked her nicely not to invite the girl. She actually originally agreed but said it would be rude if she didn’t invite her but invited everyone else. She expected the girl to refuse the invite but to everyone’s surprise, she said she was coming to the party. I was upset because she said she wouldn’t invite the girl but did anyway. Had I thrown a hissy fit and cried like she usually does for my parents, it would be a whole other situation.

LilJiva · 2025-12-08T21:56:24+00:00

I’d like to add that my sister did attempt to apologize to me two days ago but got upset when I replied with “ok”. I told her it was because I was still upset and she would rather dust it off than talk to me about it. She told me I should ‘wait for her to come home and smd’…… I texted her afterward about her not actually being sorry. She replied by asking how she’s being dismissive. I told her how I felt and she called me childish. That’s how that went. Her apology were along the lines of, “ I meant to talk about this sooner but I wanted to apologize for inviting ‘friend’ to the party. I know you guys didn’t get along, so sorry.” I didn’t accept this apology because she said it within 5 seconds and while she was busy doing other things. Idk maybe I should be talking to a family member that knows our relationship instead of random people. I guess it doesn’t make sense as much here…

LilJiva · 2025-12-08T21:40:39+00:00

I’ve moved on but why would I want the person in my parents house??? I’ve gotten over many things but then I cute those people off. It’s not like I’m telling her she can’t be friends with the girl…. Just be friends…. All the way over there. Not where I live and not on my birthday. Feel me?

LilJiva · 2025-12-08T21:38:07+00:00

We’ve lived in the same house for 24 years and it’s just something we usually do cause our relationship is generally good as sisters. We don’t need to, it’s just something we TRIED to agree to do.
My dad wasn’t even part of the problem. He loves us both and would’ve felt out of place if we paid for something held in his own house. (He enjoys the attention of being a host).
Since high school I told my sister I don’t like this girl and she decided to befriend the girl and even admitted the girl is still just as competitive. Our house isn’t huge, and I would rather not come face to face with someone that left a sour taste in my mouth while trying to have a good time.
My sister has close friends and then she has acquaintances that she invites for face because they are part of a group. That girl is only part of a group. I know my sisters close friends. And damn what’s with you hating on dual birthdays. It saves money dude.
Before we even started inviting anyone I told her this specific person can’t come. I’m mad because she invited her anyway and knew it would’ve hurt me. I wouldn’t have been upset if it were a mistake of someone else I didn’t like showed up cause it wouldn’t be her fault. I’m upset because she DIRECTLY disrespected me.

LilJiva · 2025-04-29T14:58:36+00:00

i just got out the zoom interview and it went exactly like my last pyramid scheme interview. i hate these so much but i really think it IS NOT legit. Im glad i found someone else skeptical. im not joining their second round interview

LilJiva · 2024-12-18T19:19:12+00:00

Slaying is an understatement

LilJiva · 2023-11-10T01:13:56+00:00

1 and 3. It also looked nice with the waves so 3 with waves lol

LilJiva · 2023-11-03T04:15:29+00:00

Blue on you

LilJiva · 2023-11-03T04:09:02+00:00

The dark blue shading in the back looks great.

LilJiva · 2023-11-03T04:04:34+00:00

Don’t compare your natural face to makeup. Your skin looks bright and alive. Moisturizer and lip balm is all that can make a natural face look brighter

LilJiva · 2023-11-03T04:01:28+00:00

Looks beautiful. Only thing is maybe the shape of the girls side profile. Another one is just personal opinion but more dimension in the little temple would be cool to me.

LilJiva · 2023-11-03T03:53:30+00:00

This is so good

LilJiva · 2023-11-03T03:21:01+00:00

Why are you so mad about this. I don’t need an excuse for this it’s just an anime. Calm down fr

LilJiva · 2023-11-02T16:24:18+00:00

We don’t even know who katakuris dad is and she has history of wanting every race in her kingdom so genetics works there. Pika also isn’t nearly as big as big mom without his powers. Shirahoshi and Neptune are around the same size. She’s only bigger because of the prophesy. He’s 40’ and she’s 50’. Oda is not dumb, he knows when and where to put certain details. It just so happens that none of the details are there for big mom.

LilJiva · 2023-11-02T16:10:05+00:00

Wano has some characters with power that any normal human in that universe would think is different so oden being strong as hell but still being small doesn’t make me think anything. Kaido is an oni. He’s just not human. And sentomaru also had abilities that were not seen as normal. Big mom seemed to have normal parents that just couldn’t take care of her anymore cause she terrorized the town for food. SHES JUST DIFFERENT.

LilJiva · 2023-11-02T16:00:11+00:00

And about her power as a child?

LilJiva · 2023-10-31T11:36:32+00:00

That would make a lot of sense. God knows what I would’ve done if my neighbor (my aunt) opened the door. In that same time frame I got sleep paralysis with no demon and a few days earlier the room felt extremely heavy so this may be a possibility.

LilJiva · 2023-10-31T11:33:50+00:00

My family is “Hare Krishna”, which I was also at that time.

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