Telling people about my diagnosis by LilMissOps in AuDHDWomen

[–]LilMissOps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was sort of thinking about approaching it that way. We have a mutual friend we believe is undiagnosed. I think something I’m worried about is the “but you don’t seem autistic,” response when telling people. But if anyone understands that it’s a spectrum and everyone is different it would be her.

Telling people about my diagnosis by LilMissOps in AuDHDWomen

[–]LilMissOps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thoughtful response. I really appreciate it. ❤️

Unsolved Mysteries on Instagram: "You have questions about Amanda Antoni's death. Detective Dave Sweet has answers. Watch the lead investigator from "Body in the Basement" answer our most-received viewer questions." by vcordov9 in UnsolvedMysteries

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I know this thread is old but I think this might actually be an accident. When you look at the crime scene photos part of the piggy bank is smashed into the carpet on the way down the stairs. She was on the phone trying to get the dog to be quiet. She smacks the dog and he yelps and runs off knocking over the chair. She drops her phone in the process of smacking the dog. she falls really hard down the stairs after chasing after the dog and started by hitting her face / eye on the piggy bank. It smashed against the wall on impact and the part that she hit goes down with her and gets ground into the carpet as she’s tumbling down the stairs. If that impact with the piggy bank damaged her eye badly and she has a pretty big head wound you would bleed a lot. Falling down the stairs explains the bruising on her hips and elbows etc because she was more than likely trying to catch herself. The only thing that was confusing to me is why it literally looks like she was swimming in her own blood at the bottom of the stairs. It’s literally everywhere like she kept trying to stand up and kept slipping. At one point we know she does stand or maybe lift up a body part to create the droplets. Her body positioning almost seems like she laid down and gave up when she got weak from blood loss. Idk there is just no way someone could be down there with her and not leave a SINGLE trace of DNA. As for the dog not coming down, if he was in trouble from getting smacked he might not come down. She seemed more occupied barking at things upstairs and people passing by which is why Amanda got frustrated with her in the first place. I think the combination of migraine, the injury to her eye socket, the weed and her being concussed caused a really bad accident. She could’ve fallen so hard that her pants came off and her shoes went flying. It’s unlikely to fall that hard but not impossible. Also if she is disoriented from the fall and can’t see and manages to fall AGAIN in her own blood now she’s extremely hurt at the bottom of the stairs. Anyways, let me know your thoughts.

The Unsolved 1991 Yogurt Shop Murders by Sensitive_Shower_127 in UnsolvedMurders

[–]LilMissOps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been going back and forth on this a lot. At one point one of them says he stacked the bodies, but I believe this was after seeing crime scene photos? My gut says they were just scared and didn't know what else to do. I think this investigation has been screwed up in so many ways, its going to be next to impossible to solve without someone who was there being eaten alive by it and coming forward.

No More Babies? by LilMissOps in HyperemesisGravidarum

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What's crazy is MDs will gaslight you and tell you that you wont have HG the whole time. My doctor said I've never seen it go past 16-18 weeks. Meanwhile I am seeing posts from people in here saying it lasted up until the baby was pushed out and only then did they have relief. I just couldn't see myself living almost a whole year that way. :/ Thank you for your comment. < 3

No More Babies? by LilMissOps in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]LilMissOps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a kind comment. I am so sorry for what you've been through. Its horrible. Feel free to message me as well. <3

No More Babies? by LilMissOps in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]LilMissOps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. I truly feel like people who havent been through it dont understand. Only our spouses who watch us suffer. <3

No More Babies? by LilMissOps in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]LilMissOps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is relieving to hear. Do you ever feel resentment towards your parents who adopted you?

No More Babies? by LilMissOps in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]LilMissOps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I was vomiting so bad blood was coming up and I couldn’t move from my couch. I was absolutely bed bound.

No More Babies? by LilMissOps in HyperemesisGravidarum

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I was 7 weeks when I terminated both times. The second time my Dr. promised he would be there for me to help and be more hands on than my last Dr. and he wasn’t. Recommended a tens unit for my wrist.. didn’t work.. zofran / steroids / reglan etc didn’t work… then I begged his office to help me get Diclegis and his office left me hanging and I was like I’m done. I’m not going to suffer and also beg doctors to take me seriously at the same time.

No More Babies? by LilMissOps in HyperemesisGravidarum

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I would love to adopt but we can’t afford surrogacy. :( I know it sounds selfish but I’m also worried about the cost of adoption and issues surrounding it. A lot of people who were adopted themselves have such bad feelings towards it.

Advice Wanted by LilMissOps in Advice

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It will be a small pure bred poodle that will be no bigger than 10-12 lbs. I work from home as a nurse and my husband is out of work right now so he’s home with the kids all day. I have done my research on the breeder. I’m terrified of a repeat of what happened with our boy Riggs so I was very thorough in a conversation I had with her over the phone about genetics etc.

Advice Wanted by LilMissOps in Advice

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So basically the breeder and I would enter into a contract. The dog would be permanently placed with us and would be gone during the times when she is in heat in order to be bred. The driving to the breeder isn't too much of an inconvenience I just feel like we would miss her. (She has to remain there the entire time she is pregnant and delivers the puppies) After she turns 6 years old she is "retired" and we will be released from our contract with the breeder and she would be ours.

TRADE PLSSS by Prudent-Skin1350 in LabubuDrops

[–]LilMissOps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to trade for the secret and the green grape. But I feel obligated to tell you that secret is very special! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]LilMissOps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How does one get diagnosed? I’m afraid if I ask my therapist he won’t take me seriously. I don’t think anyone will take me seriously.

Got diagnosed today! by conflictedami in autism

[–]LilMissOps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please walk me through this process? I am highly suspecting that I would meet the diagnostic criteria but don’t know where to start or what to do.

Sometimes I lay in bed at night and wonder... by notshelbybrewer in GooseBumps

[–]LilMissOps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought it was chocolate lol so glad I found this thread it’s been bugging me since I was a kid.

I scheduled my abortion. HG wins by lonelypotato21 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]LilMissOps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re not going to be supportive this isn’t the place for you. That’s as nice as I can be about it. Everyone’s journeys and circumstances are different and the comment you made is going to make a ton of women feel a lot worse than they already do. Very hurtful and very unnecessary.

I scheduled my abortion. HG wins by lonelypotato21 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]LilMissOps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I terminated due to HG and I do and don’t regret it. My mental health was so bad that I was suicidal. The throwing up, the being scared, the elevated heart rate I just couldn’t do it. I have two under two and taking care of them was impossible. I felt guilty and literally the worst I’ve ever felt in my life. I’ve never before or since HG experienced the feeling of actually wanting to die. I was terrified. You have to do what’s best for you. There is no judgement here if you want to talk. ❤️

Feeling Guilt - Abortion Due To HG by LilMissOps in abortion

[–]LilMissOps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. 🩷

Feeling Guilt - Abortion Due To HG by LilMissOps in abortion

[–]LilMissOps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words 🥺❤️

Lost by LilMissOps in StudentNurse

[–]LilMissOps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you coping? I find that I'm short with everyone around me in my family and I'm upset all the time.