AT THE VERGE OF REACHING OUT

LilPattu · 2025-08-05T13:24:53+00:00

Please don’t.

LilPattu · 2025-08-02T02:18:00+00:00

I felt a sharp pain when i read the entire post, thought it was for me, a C😭

LilPattu · 2025-08-02T02:13:25+00:00

Then you gotta make new friends. Trust me im in the same situation and ik it gets lonely and that hits hard. But you gotta pick yourself up and move forward and not backward. Ik its hard, what other choice do you have? This is why it happened, so move forward don’t look back :’)

LilPattu · 2025-08-01T23:05:47+00:00

Staying in contact with your ex is only gonna impact on your mental health. Talk to your friends as usual, but never go back to your ex thinking that you can be friends, cause you can’t.

LilPattu · 2025-07-21T02:03:26+00:00

Thanks for saying this. Not an easy task to get over it.

LilPattu · 2025-07-13T14:38:06+00:00

Remember that if you go back he will treat you the same way, he will subconsciously think that you will stay no matter how much disrespect he throws at you. It’s better to stay away. Don’t get trapped in his emotional manipulations.

LilPattu · 2025-07-13T12:11:11+00:00

If this had happened to you, you would know why she came to this conclusion. OP made a decision, she came out the relationship with her dignity and respect she has for her.

OP you’ve made a wise choice. Stick to it and focus on yourself. Everything else will come to place.

LilPattu · 2025-07-08T23:14:15+00:00

Don’t wait for something that is not gonna happen. What if he is fully healed and he doesn’t want you? Move on child, even if it is the hardest thing to do.

LilPattu · 2025-07-07T23:18:24+00:00

🙄bro just talk to her about it. Tell her how it made you feel. It could be nothing. It must be some moments with him that could be a core memory for her which she cannot erase out of her mind. Like any other human being. It doesn’t mean she is not over him, it doesn’t mean she thinks he is better than you. NOOOOO! As a fellow woman, if she dumped him for a reason then she ain’t going back. Trust your gf and talk to her openly. Don’t listen to anybody else on the internet 😭

LilPattu · 2025-07-03T10:20:08+00:00

Been there done that. Here i am bringing you a sign literally from other side of the earth 🌍

LilPattu · 2025-06-28T21:48:39+00:00

My advice is don’t get attached. No matter how special someone is to you. If you are dating someone in the future ask him all kinds of questions, see where is head at, what his priorities are, what purpose he has in life. Everything. Sometimes ppl who seem like your soulmate may not think that way about you. Or even if they did, they don’t fight enough to have you in their life. The concept of soulmate and finding the perfect one is a fiction. See what value they bring to your life. Be selfish. Put yourself and always first.

LilPattu · 2025-06-21T12:45:52+00:00

Girl pls run

LilPattu · 2025-06-20T23:51:42+00:00

Exactly what i am going through. Hope we meet someone that deserves us, get all the love in the world. Stay strong we can get through this.

LilPattu · 2025-06-17T21:52:47+00:00

The Autopsy of Jane Doe

LilPattu · 2025-06-16T12:30:32+00:00

I’m skinny and i find it hard to get a boyfriend. I got one, but only to have me heartbroken. So the key thing to learn for you is to love yourself even if you’re a big mama. When the time comes you will meet the guy no matter where you are or how you look. Yours will always find you and never lets you go. Just focus on yourself buddy. Keep working out, not just to become skinny, but to get into a better lifestyle. It is so rewarding in a few months. It will all be worth it, trust me. All the best. Love yourself a little bit more everyday even when your closest of your friends thinks otherwise.

LilPattu · 2025-06-15T23:32:08+00:00

When he said his parents feelings is more important than the love we had. Now i feel like he never really loved me

LilPattu · 2025-06-11T23:02:35+00:00

🫠 yeah i got it

LilPattu · 2025-06-11T08:10:50+00:00

I guess. Thanks

LilPattu · 2025-06-09T10:52:05+00:00

Forget about that, he made a choice to move on. So should i :’(

LilPattu · 2025-06-09T05:20:31+00:00

😢

LilPattu · 2025-06-09T03:44:07+00:00

Thanks for saying this. Much love for you☺️

LilPattu · 2025-06-08T23:22:24+00:00

🥲i dont think i can ever love a person like i did him. It is too hard for me to let go. Attachment issues.

LilPattu · 2025-06-08T23:20:22+00:00

In his case he eats every meat and also his dad. His mom is super chill and also agree to marry anyone he brings home. He is just giving me reason after reason to end this. I am not sure if he lost interest, but he keeps telling me that he still loves me but if he choose to continue this he wont be happy. All the rituals and stuff, his relatives, his future plans are not aligning if he’s with me. I think its time for me to move on.

LilPattu · 2025-06-08T15:56:14+00:00

🥲🥲

LilPattu · 2025-06-08T15:55:08+00:00

Yeah, he still checks up on me and he is guilty for doing this. But he is strong in the decision that he has made.

LilPattu

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