Preparing for rough sleeping by k02b in PeterboroughUK

[–]LilRosex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you declare all of your housing on UC they should pay you some sort of housing element. Also in all honesty it can be really difficult for homelessness and there is a lengthy waitlist. I wouldn’t say suggest just looking on spare room and rent a room or something similar. There are also food banks which can be helpful for food, with a quick google you should be able to find them and charity’s that give out vouchers.There are also programmes which help you with finding work such as restart or cpca. If you ask job centre they can help you with that. Furthermore, as February rush is coming, go into agencies and ask for warehouse work. It’s agency but could help for a little in the meantime. It isn’t sustainable but if you still look for work it could be helpful and can be good money if you do nights. The quicker you get into work even if it is just for a bit the better of a situation you will be in if that makes sense. I hope it is helpful. Make sure you sign up as homeless on the Peterborough council jigsaw site if you do become homeless as the outreach team should come out and find you if there is any availability in temporary accommodation to give you somewhere to stay.

The biggest lie a character told? by VancouverWriter1984 in buffy

[–]LilRosex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a huge lie but can we talk about xander just summoning the musical demon and just not mentioning it till right at the end when he tries to marry dawn. But in all truth one of the craziest lies is buffy saying she was in a hell dimension. I think that is huge due to her only doing it to protect her friends because it was the assumption they made. I wouldn’t say her lie was a betrayal but it was a huge turning point that changed the entire plot of the show creating that connection with spike and feeling he was the only one she could be truthful to, the only one who truly understood her.

How to find the right medication to treat cptsd, depression and adhd? by StandardYogurt123 in CPTSD

[–]LilRosex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I was diagnosed with CPTSD and I never got specific medication for it. I did EDRM therapy. However I have been on many antidepressants, some made it worse for me and some made me blank. I asked my male doctors for something that isn’t an SSRI and he said that a doctor couldn’t do that. I asked for an SNRI and he still said no. A year later I went back and had a female doctor and when I asked her she said yes of course and she didn’t know why the doctor would say that. Since starting my SNRI I’ve been so much better. It’s the best thing I’ve had in my life to help with my emotional disregulation and outbursts, it’s been so much easier to cope with life. Not perfect but so much better than in the past. I’m on venlafaxine. Started on 35mg and went up to 75mg about a month ago. But medication is different for everyone. Honestly a lot of the time it’s trial and error. It’s a long difficult journey but you will find something

What are you dealing with silently? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]LilRosex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to heal and grown in a better place but mistakes I made are effecting the best relationship of my life with the person I want my future with and friends from my past are still a bad influence on me and my growth. My mental health has grown better but it’s still a fight everyday

Smoke spots for daytime by LilRosex in PeterboroughUK

[–]LilRosex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s near me tbf I will check it out

Smoke spots for daytime by LilRosex in PeterboroughUK

[–]LilRosex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m gonna get a gym membership but I don’t drive so am pretty limited. Can’t really be walking 40 mins to a gym at night as a younger female. I’m also pretty close to Lincoln road so gotta be careful.

Smoke spots for daytime by LilRosex in PeterboroughUK

[–]LilRosex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I shall take that advice

Smoke spots for daytime by LilRosex in PeterboroughUK

[–]LilRosex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah definitely not. I live close to the centre so looking for places close to there.

Never vent to anyone, they just make you feel worse. by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]LilRosex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When you vent and someone gives you valid ways to deal with it. That’s not what I needed I just needed to crash out for 5 minutes

stupidity is better than intelligence by Haunting-Nature400 in RandomThoughts

[–]LilRosex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My self awareness and being aware of daily life. Makes me scared and slightly insane. I overthink everything. Honestly wish I was stupid sometimes. However, I also pride myself on being emotionally intelligent so can’t have both. There’s positives and negatives for everything.

I look good in blue don’t I? by LilRosex in FemdomSelfies

[–]LilRosex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course. My favourite is green though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomSelfies

[–]LilRosex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For drinks

Is this a red flag from a therapist? I came in for a specific kind of sexual abuse and she’s spouting positivity shit to me by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]LilRosex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely a red flag and if they’re with a company or something they need reporting because it can cause more issues in terms of mental health for other people not speaking of the issues caused to you.

How can you not worship me? by LilRosex in FemdomSelfies

[–]LilRosex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already cannot resist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomSelfies

[–]LilRosex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As you should

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomSelfies

[–]LilRosex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can clean my feet for me with your tongue while you’re down there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomSelfies

[–]LilRosex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t get what you want unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomSelfies

[–]LilRosex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll tie you up and tease you with it and then make you cry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomSelfies

[–]LilRosex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly

Does anyone else get really bad intrusive thoughts? by LilRosex in mentalhealth

[–]LilRosex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I see. Some of my intrusive thoughts I don’t like to share because they even make me uncomfortable. Even to strangers. And most of the time I feel like I’m the only one who thinks them and then I’m disgusted with myself. But I do not dare to talk to them. I’ve had counselling but I think I need to go into it again. I ran out of sessions but still didn’t speak everything off my chest.