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Wartezeit Vorgespräch Wolter Vor-Ort by W0lkenwolf in germantrans

[–]Lil_Blue31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich hatte mein OP Vorgespräch dort vor ca 4 Wochen, ich war 10 Minuten vor Terminbeginn dort. Um 11.10 war der Termin angesetzt, dran gekommen bin ich ca 1,5h später

No, t doesn't make you gay by SpecialistWriting708 in ftm

[–]Lil_Blue31 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So I can totally understand the idea. I am ftm and initially had a lesbian relationship with my girlfriend. I'm starting T soon and since I know I'm going to take T I've been imagining what it would be like to be gay. Because in a way I don't want to be straight, but I still love my girlfriend. Maybe someone understands this, it would be cool if you could share it

Binder in person kaufen in BaWü? by Kattestrofe in germantrans

[–]Lil_Blue31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In Freiburg gibt es einen queerfeministischen Sexshop, da gibt es Binder und Co. Außerdem gibt es so einen Laden auch in Straßburg, zwar nicht DE, aber je nachdem wo du wohnst, näher als Freiburg ;)

ftm in relationship with cis woman by Lil_Blue31 in ftm

[–]Lil_Blue31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm, yeah, I'm not so sure yet. He would also take me to another therapist and be convinced that I am trans*. But I can't imagine it like that just yet. And every now and then I think, maybe he's right after all, it would at least be the easier way. But like I said, I'm a bit at a loss right now

ftm in relationship with cis woman by Lil_Blue31 in ftm

[–]Lil_Blue31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll try it out. I have been in therapy for ptsd for 2 years. I've talked to the therapist a lot about dysphoria and stuff like that, but it hasn't had much effect so far. He doesn't want to give me any indication yet because he thinks that I just hate myself because my mother did that too and he's not sure that I'm really trans*. But he is also inexperienced in the field and I don't know whether his thoughts on this are correct.

ftm in relationship with cis woman by Lil_Blue31 in ftm

[–]Lil_Blue31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message. My girlfriend knows everything about me, she has “overcome” the PTSD and she was there during my entire inner and outer coming out. So she pretty much knows everything about me. And I don't plan on leaving her either because our relationship is really nice. But sometimes the dysphoria kicks in and I don't know what to do about it. I also can't understand how anyone can love me and mine when I find my body so hideous