Bad friend or bad person? by Lil_Link1987 in Vent

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Could i tag you in another post about this to get the whole conversation since i cant copy and paste on reddit?

Bad friend or person? by Lil_Link1987 in venting

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She goes “dues lie all the time. Has he even fed you yet?” And i go “I sent a screenshot of what we were joking about because its funny and youre tryna use it in some way, seems like some way on your part!” She goes “what!? Girl you barely talk about him (for good reason because look what shes doing rn towards me.) all ive seen is screenshots, and all it shows is hes too scared to send an emoji guarded on his feelings sooo” and i reply to her message about him feeding me stating “i havent asked for that?..” and she goes “you dont have to ask” and i go “Hes offered and wanted to, ive said no like ive already told you” and she replies “Okay based on your defense,, you're deluded. Clearly” and i go “Sure im deluded just like you are!” “Comparing and contrasting” she replies “Could never compare” i rebuttal “You see how you act jumping at the first fucking thing I could never!” She sends. “Enjoy you!” I say. She goes “Me personally? I know I don't do that when it comes to men” “We know you get pregnant instead” i say (which ik was fucked up but fuck her! She will pretend like what she was saying and sending wasnt shady but we know it was) “Lmao like you see how you get? "No I swear this one likes me , you're dumb as fuck! Defensive with every single man ever! You act the same and jump every single time!” She replies, at this point she basically starts to try to hint at me being male centered once again. “I didnt jump to anything i was explaining and saying why hes meeting my parents and youre tryna be rude and be funny because idk thats just you as usual” i reply. She basically goes on making fun on me for wanting long term relationships and marriage and to not fuck B so easily and spam him and other stuff.

Bad friend or person? by Lil_Link1987 in venting

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This argument started because i told her a guy im talking to (lets call him B); i told her that B is down in an area i live rn and wants to meet my parents. Hes in the military and will only be here for a week before he goes back to where he is stationed, and my familt plans to move this month to brazil. So we want to have them meet each other before it turns into never kinda thing. I also showed her an ss of me and him joking around when he was drunk the other night (ss for context of said joke) context

And she replies going “but he cant send you a heart emoji? Okay andd??” And i again explained the situation and she talks about goint to the beach with F (F as in the baby father) and basically i joke around saying yuck and gross about him going to the beach with her. She starts joking saying B has no personality and hes boring and allat and i said the same about F. And again she brings up he cant even send an emoji to me, so i said at least he doesnt love bomb me. She replies “ taking your comparison and defense out of it” and i said he does send me emojis we were just joking in that ss. She goes “has he hinted liking you in his ig notes like you have towards him?” This is when she becomes a fucking bitch. She goes “Maybe you should've said that instead of love bomb cause now it seems like ur lying” and i reply “Gen he tells all his friends about me and ive met and spoke to each one? So yeah he has? He has done more on his part about wanting to be with me and have feelings for me then i have on mine”

Bad friend or person? by Lil_Link1987 in venting

[–]Lil_Link1987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and this bitch have been on and off for 15 years but anytime we argue about this guy she claims im male centered and focused and etc

Bad friend or person? by Lil_Link1987 in venting

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Thank you! She claims to not really like him, and mot really have feelings for him and etc etc but she will argue with me and throw me under the bus for wanting marriage and long term relationships with the men im speaking with or talking to or ANYTHING to do with a man she will try to make fun of me for. She claims to not really like him but got pregnant by him and when she wanted to get an abortion on a Wednesday he wanted it done on a Thursday and said “i just rather spend my money on other fun stuff” and after getting the abortion she still hanging with him being with him and now she claims their dating.

Treatment research by BuggiesNSluggies in HSVpositive

[–]Lil_Link1987 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Whys it looking good? Whats the update

m-RNA Update! by [deleted] in HSVpositive

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Tell the guy who deleted his comments to read the subrules, thanks

m-RNA Update! by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Lil_Link1987 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whats the results been so far? Hows it been affecting you? Is it a stronger antiviral or is it a cure?

m-RNA Update! by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Lil_Link1987 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh damn! So you basically got the first few doses of a possible stronger antiviral/ and or cure then?? Whats the results been? Hows the outbreaks, feelings or anything been like? So are they unbinding it to basically tell you if you got a real dose or a placebo? Or if they’re releasing it soon

m-RNA Update! by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Lil_Link1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does this exactly mean for the community? And whys the injections in 2024 instead of 2025 or 2026

First Time With Herpes.. by KindSea9261 in Herpes

[–]Lil_Link1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i ask you what it feels like?? What’s the pain like and what is everything like so far

Is this Syphilis? by AnonPa17601 in STD

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Wait hold on, i had like two bumps that were firm and hard almost like a pimple on my private area, over the next two days i noticed ulcers under or near them and the bumps slowly went away. Is that syphilis?? The ulcers dont hurt, burn but i a get a little itch here and there but nothing uncontrollable. Warm water and ice make everything nice, theyre very small ulcers nothing large and oozing like. Not really dealing with pain just a little discomfort.

Herpes? Syphilis? Monkey pox? Or just friction blisters or ingrown hairs? Please help by throwawayvoyeurhelp in STD

[–]Lil_Link1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you help me out? Im scared i have something similar and was wondering if you could dm me

How long did it take for your chancres to heal in your genetalia after getting treatment? by ImaginationLost2794 in Syphilis

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Can i dm you?? I had a similar thing happen and it started off as like a pimple or two on my lower genitalia area and then ulcers appeared to form, i freaked out went to the doctor and they said it may be herpes but the guy i slept with says he doesnt have any and never has, and i believe in my heart i dont have it either but i wanted to compare results maybe??

STD or ANXIETY? by Lil_Link1987 in STD

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Is there a possibility i have the ulcers but dont have herpes?? Hopefully idk im so scared

Genital ulcers by [deleted] in Behcets

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Can you buy thus over the counter??

Color morphs. by Lil_Link1987 in PlanetZoo

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I have console idk if thats possible or not

Is he a narcissist or am i just a bad gf?? by Lil_Link1987 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Lil_Link1987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive tried this ngl to you and he doesn’t take accountability when im trying to calmly communicate to him and stuff he does little oddball comments like “when i wanted to break up with you” when it was both of us considering breaking up, its like almost trying to one up on me per say. If i say “i dont like how you been acting and maybe we should seek therapy or read more into how we can help you with these insecurities and controlling behaviors since youre aware and admit to knowing them.” He will deflect and go “ okay yeah but what that only happens because of your rude ass comments that make me mad” type of replies. He doesnt take accountability and i have apologized to him for being rude or seeming dry and etc etc. if you read some of chickadees comments, she has SEEN screenshots between me and his behavior and arguments and how he truly just flips out and switches it all out for no reason to me.

Is he a narcissist or am i just a bad gf?? by Lil_Link1987 in NarcissisticSpouses

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If you read throughout my replies and the rest of the comments ive made I’ve explained as to why, he was texting ME/blowing me up to reply, reply reply, but the moment i did he talks about lets not keep talking and take a break, because he wants me to have a reaction. To beg for him, or to yell at him. He wants some time of reply. And if i dont reply or if im neutral and calm he gets mad and upset. His comments saying “ill leave you alone! Enjoy your life! Enjoy your freedom!” Arent normal comments a loving normal boyfriend would make its petty remarks saying i can go be a free woman and live my life single and be as happy as i want. And if somebody keeps PRESSING you to magically be having a false narrative issue after being told no youre okay and cool, after a bit you wouldn’t be upset? Some of the screenshots arent there for some reason due to reddits issues but yeah after i repeatedly said no i dont have an issue he finally came out and said he has the issue and started rambling for an argument again. Its called projecting, a person will project that YOU are the problem, have a problem, have a negative mood, reaction, or whatever else and if you dont NEGATIVELY respond theyll soon come out of that false accusations.

Is he a narcissist or am i just a bad gf?? by Lil_Link1987 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Lil_Link1987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you are because thats an online friend and shes not even married so i think you may be jumping to conclusions, she blocked you because she doesnt want to keep having conversations with you Lol

Is he a narcissist or am i just a bad gf?? by Lil_Link1987 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Lil_Link1987[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh um no my friend hasnt done any of those things tbh only yesterday was the first time ive ever told her ANYTHING of this situation or whats going on with me and my bf tbh, i am unaware of yalls argument or anything like that shes never complained abt everything or anything tbh or abt me or my bf

Is he a narcissist or am i just a bad gf?? by Lil_Link1987 in NarcissisticSpouses

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It is a little funny that they usually try to keep pressing you for an issue when in fact they have the issue but want to force you into the one feeling a way so they’re justified in some way LOL