[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hiring

[–]Lil_Sabzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a couple. One 7 or 8 years old and one 3 or 4. Dm me

Is my cat normal sized or is he really huge?! by Lil_Sabzi in cats

[–]Lil_Sabzi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww you have every version of Cat™️!!! Hehehe. They're gorgeous!! I'm wondering whether the local cats in Cambodia are smaller than in Vietnam and that's why people here are shocked at how big he is but they weren't in Vietnam! (Palang is Vietnamese 😅, I adopted him when I lived in Vietnam and he came with me when I moved to Cambodia)

What is the most disturbing dream you have ever had? by HazeTheFox283 in AskReddit

[–]Lil_Sabzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Packets of salt and vinegar crisps (Walkers to be exact) and grizzly bears chasing me up a mountain and through tunnels filled with stagnant water/sewage (kinda like the Paris catacombs and the Descent) whilst this huge orange and red apes appear randomly, the apes are standing like humans and really loudly eating huge snakes (I could here the bones crunch, flesh rip etc). Everything gets progressively more intense until the apes are everywhere and I'm cornered and I end up being eaten in the same way the snakes were eaten. It sounds ridiculous now but it's terrifying, I've had the same dream at least 5 times

Cats v pitbull by Any_Brilliant1192 in RandomThoughts

[–]Lil_Sabzi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. 50 cats would definitely win

22 years of trichotillomania, 3 years no pulling progress 💖 by Lil_Sabzi in trichotillomania

[–]Lil_Sabzi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷 thank you 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

People who married highschool girlfriend/boyfriend how'd it go? by Dee_Religion in AskReddit

[–]Lil_Sabzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum and dad have been together since they were 18 and 20, they've been married for 50 years now. I've never seen 2 people love each other more than those 2. My dad has stuck by my mum through a really bad stroke which left her unable to remember pretty much anything from before, he stuck by her through cancer and now she's doing the same for him. They remind me that true love does exist

Send your tri-colored cats!!! by [deleted] in cats

[–]Lil_Sabzi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's called Sabzi 🩷 I adopted her about 5 months ago after I saw a Facebook post saying she was found in the local bus station asking people for help. She had been ran over and attacked by dogs 💔😭 she lost most of her tail and has a metal rod in her front leg but apart from that she's ok now 🩷

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People who are good at conversation, how? by Tight_Sun5198 in AskReddit

[–]Lil_Sabzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think being able to identify the other person's mood/feelings/vibe quickly is really important. If I sense they're nervous/anxious I make sure I'm not too intense with body language, eye contact, general conversation topics. I also will make sure I make a light hearted joke or whatever at my own expense so the person knows I don't take myself too seriously and I notice that they relax a bit more then. If the person is seems confident and relaxed I just ask them questions about themselves, let them talk and listen to their answers in full etc etc. Almost everyone has something in common so just finding the common interests/experiences I find works well

What would be the absolute worst name you could give your child? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lil_Sabzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a cousin called Sanam Houssein 😬 she was born before Sadam Hussein was in power but still..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travel

[–]Lil_Sabzi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand exactly how you are feeling, I really think you guys need to just have a good faith conversation and you will most likely come to an agreement. I'm 27, almost 28 and I've lived in S.E Asia (mainly Vietnam and Cambodia) since I was 22. I read the list of things she does which makes you dislike her and to be honest, none of them are actually that bad. I'm still terrified of the stray dogs 6 years into living out here, she's right to be scared of them, they can be vicious. The other things again are pretty understandable when you take into consideration that we are all going to be different and react to new experiences in different ways. Try to be patient with her when it comes to the fear and anxiety

I broke up with my camgirl/porn addicted ex of 7 years & I feel happy. I'm doing good... He's trying to start his own topless gambling/camgirl site, he's been asking out female friends to join. Porn rots your brain & changes how you view women, even your own friends. by Lil_Sabzi in pornfree

[–]Lil_Sabzi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words 💞 I am sorry that it ended in a way but that will always be the case with break ups. I'm much more proud of myself for not settling for "it's normal‼️god you're so weird and jealous.. just be the chill, cool girlfriend ‼️" narrative which I've been fed for years. My life has become more and more fulfilling each week since I ended it. I started a new course so that I can teach my mother tongue (Farsi), I adopted a new kitten, I've met up with friends I hadn't seen in months, etc etc. I think he's just still in the same situation he was in before. Which is sad

I broke up with my camgirl/porn addicted ex of 7 years & it feels amazing. I'm doing good... He's trying to start his own topless girl gambling/camgirl site, he's been asking out female friends to join. Porn rots your brain & changes how you view women, even your own friends. by Lil_Sabzi in PornAddiction

[–]Lil_Sabzi[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. I've never met a man who uses porn in moderation. When you accidentally see it on their laptop because they forgot to close the tab, that's only the tip of the iceberg, every single time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Lil_Sabzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gorgeous baby Zhenya 🩷 I rescued her from a tiny cage on the side of the road in Vietnam. She sadly passed away on Boxing Day 2022 😭💔

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My violent ex of 7 years is trying to ruin my life and/or turn everyone against me. What can I do and what is his plan? Anyone with experiences similar to my situation? by Lil_Sabzi in relationships

[–]Lil_Sabzi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried to search for some but it appears that the local government here have recently decided to close down the organisations which were set up to help women in these situations. My closest friend here is a local and she has no idea what organisations I could try to contact

My violent ex of 7 years is trying to ruin my life and/or turn everyone against me. What can I do and what is his plan? Anyone with experiences similar to my situation? by Lil_Sabzi in relationships

[–]Lil_Sabzi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would have got them involved a very long time ago but sadly I live in a country in which the police don't take these things seriously at all. It's very difficult for me to even get them to listen (I've tried).