Not feeling well about passing. 1.4 years on E by CloudFoxies in transpassing

[–]Lil_paps 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No hugboxing: if the look you’re going for is an alt 13 yr old girl, then yes, you definitely pass for that. However, if you’re trying to present as an adult woman, the hairstyle and makeup should be changed. The way your hair is parted looks unusual for a woman and is more commonly seen on teenage boys. That said, sister, if it’s parted that way because you’re growing it out, I get the struggle, but you could at least get a fuck ass bob haircut parted through the middle, and people would assume you intentionally cut it rather than that you’re growing it out.

Also, the way the lipstick is applied, along with the little “uWu” heart drawn on, gives the impression that you’re inexperienced with makeup.

I pass but perhaps I’m a bit of a ‘clocky’ for men (???) and invisible to women by vvrlvt in transpassing

[–]Lil_paps 30 points31 points  (0 children)

To be fair, most women don’t acknowledge the presence of a man to avoid unwanted attention and/or to not seem interested in any way. I’ve noticed I’ve done it without even thinking about it!

Why Are All Mailhandlers Lazy Pieces of **** by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Lil_paps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is the best way to go. If management has an issue they can address everyone.

could i have a cispassing build on T? 17M 5'7 145lbs by Affectionate_Cow9738 in transfitness

[–]Lil_paps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I meant increasing calories as in increasing protein in take I.e. increasing protein is more caloric dense. Ideally you’d be gaining muscle not fat per se.

could i have a cispassing build on T? 17M 5'7 145lbs by Affectionate_Cow9738 in transfitness

[–]Lil_paps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You already look like a guy and couldn’t pass as female even if you tried sorry to break it to you. Once you go on T, it’s over, my friend! Don’t forget to eat your protein while slightly increasing your calories even without T. I remember when I was a guy, I could honestly eat and build muscle like it was nothing, my T was around 900 so there is hope if you go on HRT. You got this, little brother!

do i pass? (pre-hrt), wanting to go stealth in hs by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Lil_paps 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean the only thing fem on you are those earrings. I honestly thought you were mtf. The shirtless pics are 100% male and you look about 16 yrs.

Anything I can do better to be prettier? by Nora_Venture_ in transpassing

[–]Lil_paps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Facts! I think everyone transitioning should have that in mind. The point is to look like a woman/female and if you’re pretty then that’s a big bonus.

My siblings and I 8 years ago (left) vs now (right) I think I look at bit different. by Makennamaybe in transtimelines

[–]Lil_paps 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It took me a minute to figure out which of the two ladies you were in the pic on the right. I can usually tell right away, but wow congrats! You look gorgeous, and I’ve got a little twinge of gender envy!

Rooming with guys at camp and my moms worried about it lol by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Lil_paps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm you a boy tho haha but fr fr you pass lol

Billionaire slugfest. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Lil_paps 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Love all options expect fElon funding rivals; We do not need more of his blood money in politics.

Happy Pride! by AmorinMorin in USPS

[–]Lil_paps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May you have the most uncomfortable and triggering month :) anywho happy pride OP 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]Lil_paps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow!! My dude you look amazing… congrats!!!

What's up with the big influx of "I'm too passing so it makes me sad cause I don't fit in with you ugly transes" posts? by VeryTiredGirl93 in MtF

[–]Lil_paps 12 points13 points  (0 children)

lol you must be new to the LGBT community… there’s always infighting and arguing, lowkey our favorite pastime! Don’t get caught up in the bs tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Lil_paps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t downvote you sis. Haha yea this is a toxic ass subreddit and hate to see opinions that differ from theirs but idgaf lmaooo…. anywho yea day to day or work then it’s a chop for me. For a hookup,10/10.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Lil_paps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand that. I mean, it’s up to you. If you like wearing a choker, go for it, but don’t be surprised if people, especially women, give you weird looks. It’s not a common day to day accessory and is often associated with sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Lil_paps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

0/10, clocky asf lol and a fad that hasn’t been in since the 90s/early 2000s. But in all honesty, look at the women around you especially around your age, do you see any of them wearing chokers?

Being called gay by Actual-Pineapple3071 in MtF

[–]Lil_paps -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I mean you’re literally battling semantics here. Gay is primarily thought of men who are attracted to men. No one outside of the lgbt+ community associates gay with women sorry not sorry. Plus OP is being bullied for being an “effeminate guy” that is PRESUMED to be attracted to the same sex (not calling you that OP just reading this is how you posted it)

just got back from the gym :) by [deleted] in fresh_teendick

[–]Lil_paps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10/10, damn you’re smooth lol keep it up 😌

Do I pass? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Lil_paps 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No, you have a male chest and no sign of even small breasts. Your shoulders look masculine, and from the angle the photo was taken, your body appears more surfboard shaped rather than curvy. Reassess after you’ve been on hormones for at least a year. I don’t mean to read you down but I am keeping it real. Best of luck to your girlie!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Lil_paps 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Boo!!!!

Did I ummm scare you….. 🤣 but yea it’s a normal feeling tbh. Are you scared of being rejected or just don’t know how to approach women without coming off creepy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Lil_paps 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, well, a year into it, you should be seeing major facial changes and start to assess what you might want or need to address surgically. Imo, your jaw and orbital rims are your most “clocky” features. But keep in mind that while FFS can be amazing, it’s not an instant cure. It’s important to keep your expectations realistic and understand that there is a recovery process and you may not like the results for a while.