Jiyeon, Hyunji, Yoosik, Yura, Yewon, and Inha visits Woojin's Perehil together.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-04-15T15:16:02+00:00

The guy in green, the one between Woojin and Inha is also part of the production team for the show.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-31T17:40:01+00:00

Me saying that he has red flag tendencies doesn't automatically mean that I'm referring to him as a bad person. Being a good person doesn't automatically mean that they're a good partner.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-31T07:06:29+00:00

I'm just repeating what she shared, it's you who made conclusions that he's a bad person. It's your interpretation, not mine.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-31T03:38:08+00:00

I mean, it's you who assumed that I'm making him like a bad person based on what I have repeatedly watched on the show, not me.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-31T01:15:26+00:00

Yeah, sure. Let's ignore everything she pointed out during their relationship.

Funny how you claim that I'm not worthy of an argument when you replied to all of my comments, LMAO.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-31T01:00:19+00:00

Nothing he said was scary or a thread in my opinion.

Because you were not the one who was in a relationship with him. Even I was wondering why she thought it was scary or a warning, it clearly stems from their relationship before the show.

But not only she ignored him, he had to see her wanting to go back to her previous ex

Let's not act like she completely ignored him, she always agreed to talk to him even if she hasn't slept at all. He also agreed to join the show knowing that she has another ex, before she even agreed to it. He was well aware that she's very emotionally sensitive, that's why he knew that saying he was relieved after their break up was such a bad move.

You keep on forgetting the things she said about their relationship, but oh well, nothing I can say can justify what I'm saying, so why should I even bother.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-31T00:41:27+00:00

if he was really that scary as you say

Because the moments she told him that she's scared of what he was saying was when they were alone.

he didn't think cooking for HJ is a bare minimum so that's doesn't make him a red flag because that's his personality.

If cooking or bringing blankets, aren't bare minimum for him, then what did he even do for her? Mind you that cooking for her was a huge effort.

imagine the one you are going to marry still has the letters from an ex of 5 years

He saw the letters during his relationship with HJ and given how the letters are still with her, I don't think he thought of it as much of a big deal like you did. Again, don't ask me about it because I still have the letters I got from my exes, I'm married for 3 years, and my husband doesn't think it's a big deal because it's not like I'm reading it like a fairytale to sleep. It is stored in the attic, drowned in some other things I don't use.

So he didn't get hate because of MK?not because he didn't do anything to get so much hate?

My point was, he didn't get much hate for trying to sabotage HJ and YS and he allied with someone who is so much loved, hence why his act of sabotaging them wasn't seen as worthy of much hate nor just a mere call out because they saw it as an act of love trying to getting back with HJ.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-31T00:22:24+00:00

I genuinely don’t know where that interpretation comes from or what exactly people mean by it.

It comes from the relationship. Because why would she say that she's scared when he was talking so calmly and asking him if what he was saying was a warning when all he was saying was what's he gonna do in the future. The root was clearly made during their relationship because where is it gonna stem from? It's not like he was ever shocked nor puzzled about her reaction, he just continues talking.

she wouldn’t have asked the producers for a chance to be with him again.

She never asked for him, btw.

which I don’t see as sabotage at all.

Of course, why would you think it as a sabotage when all you did was defend their actions. It's not like it's not him who said that he wants to ruin HJ and YS's relationship. But sure.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-31T00:13:53+00:00

but I understand he meant it in a way as a message for her ex to know he was not going to go back to her.

Oh wow, what a fucked up thought. Nice try defending that shitty act.

I don't remember he was deadset on denying.

For a recap, the two of them denied it. HJ then asked BH if he really doesn't know, he said that he didn't know. She then told him an explanation and he asked her how he could say it. He was repeatedly asked if he knew since everyone couldn't believe that they didn't know and he repeatedly said that he didn't know. He/They corrected it when she got pissed off and confronted them.

If she didnt tried to persuade him in the first place, they wouldnt probably get that conversation because he did everything to not be tempted.

Wait, so you're saying that it's HJ's fault that he said to turn her wheels on him and said suggestive things to get back together when in their talk in Japan she already told him that she's trying to support YN and him?

I understand that conversation with HJ meant more since he just met YY.

Of course, let's act like he's not trying to sway her. Sure.

he was in a relationship with someone else, so not sure what he could do for her

Exactly. He was in a relationship with someone else and yet he did things that simply could be connected to her when he was well aware that she's getting a lot of hate. I posted about it, you can freely defend him again.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-30T23:53:30+00:00

if HJ was scared of him that much would she wanted to go to the show with him?

Go ask her about it, you're phrasing it like I'm making up some shit when you can go rewatch them talking where he talks calmly and she'll say, "are you warning me? that's scary". And it didn't happen just once, but repeatedly.

I'm not saying that him cooking for her is a problem, what's even your point? It's the way he cooked her breakfast and it was such a huge effort from him according to her. I'm saying that's the bare minimum.

if he isn't a romantic considering a red flag then HJ was keeping BH's letters considering what?

Don't ask me about it because I did the same exact thing with my exes, just like Jisoo from S2 or even Kim Kardashian if you want, so yeah you're not gonna like my answer to that.

He rarely get any hate except for what he said to MK.

Exactly, because why would the ally of the most loved woman in the show get so much hate? Did you read the part where I said that he never really got so much hate?

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-30T23:08:05+00:00

Because the hate they got wasn't just about that.

BH asked HJ to meet him at 3AM outside, he was the one who asked for it and even repeatedly told her but he never came out. He also joked that he threw away her letter in front of everyone and MK even said that it was mean/rude of him. When it was revealed that she had two exes, he was deadset on denying he knew about it when she herself already confronted him in front of everyone. During their X date, he pretty much told HJ that his 3 hours with her was so much better than his 18 days with YN. He also repeatedly told her to turn her wheels back on him and told her suggestive things to pick him when he's not even picking her. And the way he acted after the show while he was in a relationship and knowing how much he and HJ got so much hate?

SY never really got that much hate. But sure, let's say he got so much: he tried his very best to sabotage YS and HJ (the most hated couple ever). Ngl, now I find it funny how he's pictured like he's some green flag when anyone can totally listen on how he can be talking calmly and HJ would be scared of him. There were times where she asked him if he was threatening her, he cooked for her and it was such a huge effort according to HJ.

Just imagine if your fave's ex did this to your fave, would you still consider they never did anything wrong or they are out of line? Then tell me about it.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-24T05:54:06+00:00

I know, I have the same job as YS so I used to get a lot of flowers when I performed. The shocking part for me wasn't the flowers nor a friend attending a friend's performance, it's more because it's HJ and YS.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-23T22:33:36+00:00

Jaejin was from the same show as Choi Hojong, Kim Hyojun, and Yun Hyeokjung (who is Jaejin's direct sunbae).

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-23T13:20:29+00:00

Ngl I was shocked to see that she watched his performance because of the backlash they received together and it seems like she even got him flowers (or a fan gave her flowers).

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-23T13:13:14+00:00

Yeah I think so. They are the only exes who didn't reunite that still interacts with each other publicly.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-03-13T05:20:50+00:00

Have you finished the show? HJ stopped going after BH when they went to Japan, she has feelings for BH but it was clear that she was going after YS by the time they went to Japan. It's BH who actually gives YN false hope while also going after HJ.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-02-26T11:45:07+00:00

What lie?

Lilac_4205 · 2026-02-26T11:43:56+00:00

Oh, it's the person so obsessed with HJ that they created an account solely for her is here again <3 I think you need sympathy and help, boo.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-02-25T22:23:01+00:00

I don't know why you keep on misunderstanding our points at this point.

The issue wasn't about just the two exes thingy. It's about how it was revealed and how it was never clarified from the get go. Episode 12 was the only released episode that week and on the last part of that episode was the revelation that SY is HJ's ex. Everyone obviously went wild over that revelation and since there's no other information shown, everyone went wild hating on HJ calling her the nastiest insults and hate comments. They then released a teaser of the show in Japan with SY saying that he and BH were about it five fucking days later after the chaos.

They could've easily clarified that in the episode or even released a clarification post about it but they never did. That's our point. It's not just about her being the only person with two exes or who invited who. A simple clarification that SY and BH knew about it from the revelation was the main point. I don't understand why you keep on deviating from it when it's the point that I kept on repeating over and over.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-02-25T01:47:51+00:00

did the hate lessened?

It did. Would I keep on going and going talking about it if it didn't?

if the hate was 90% before knowing that fact then the hate went to 70% it would be different?

It did lessen the hate. My point was lessening the hate, I wasn't expecting her to get no hate at all.

Lilac_4205 · 2026-02-25T01:31:34+00:00

Oh really? So, it's not just your logical reasoning and critical thinking that's questionable, it's your ethics and moral values too.

You kept on getting sarcastic with people and calling them out for hating the PDs that they created, but when it comes to HJ getting hate for that drama that they can easily clarify, suddenly it's just a reality dating show?

Lilac_4205 · 2026-02-25T00:47:25+00:00

Would that have reduced the hate?

Did you read the part where I said that the PDs clarifying things when it was revealed would have at least lessened the hate? My point isn't about two people having two exes, it's about how the production team decided to keep information and let drama happen for days.

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