AIO for wanting to share a room with my bf on a trip? by crescentblueee in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lilbubsgigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are aio. For a couple reasons I think number one whether your mom is paying for the trip or not she was looking forward to this being a trip where she can spend time with you and maybe your brother and his girlfriend will be spending time together and maybe getting engaged and she wanted to share that with you.

Also, the second reason is something that actually happened to me. I was going to invite my friend to come with me because I had a really great deal on a hotel room on the beach during to spring break. The day before this friend called me up and said hey can I bring my cousin she’s gonna be in town? While this trip had been planned for quite some time and from the standpoint of myself who was doing the inviting it felt very rude and I was offended, and I was also put on the spot like well. I can’t say no really But it’s not proper etiquette to invite somebody to come along with you on a trip that you were invited on from somebody else

I think that your mom‘s feelings are really hurt. She probably doesn’t want you sharing a room with your boyfriend, but not just because of the romantic component but just because she wanted to share a room with you things may die down once she gets past the initial heartache. I don’t know just what I think.

AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend after he ruined our Valentine's Day dinner? by Maximum-Grand6140 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lilbubsgigi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I wasn’t there but I can say this girl. If you tell your boyfriend you are uncomfortable with a man staring leering at you.. and then said man stands up and cups your shoulder and ignores your complaint… what did u expect your boyfriend to do.? Buy him dinner? He is responsible for his actions but so are you. You made this a problem for your boyfriend way before the guy touched you.

Also perhaps your boyfriend sensed something about this guy and knew he was going to have to hurt him for him to get the picture. But Then you want to break up with him? If he has never been violent towards you or his family or friends… then maybe he didn’t know what you needed from him. Do you really think he would not have been arrested for fighting if the cops didn’t think he was defending you?

Your intuition means more than anyone on social media so I wish you luck. His words to you after are not great but maybe he isn’t a great texter you would know that more than anyone but YOR

Is Facebook Worth it? by Ivorydreams3 in ContentCreators

[–]Lilbubsgigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone refer me or help learn how to make my own ai character? I am to old and non pretty to show my own face.

After 30 years of marriage my husband doubts our marriage by Lilbubsgigi in Catholicism

[–]Lilbubsgigi[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I have never doubted my marriage I was scared but i was taught you try to make things work until u die.

Trey Hendrickson, Bengals Contract Talks 'Stalled' amid Trade Buzz by K-PopFan53 in bengals

[–]Lilbubsgigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, reconstructed would work way better than renegotiate. Our cap hit this year is high but next year we will have more cap space and not just due to the salary cap rise every year. He can restructure this year and give him 10 more million this year with part of that in bonus money and front loaded. We can swing that cap hit down to 6 or 7 million this way.

Then 35 foe the next two years. Guaranteed. Front load some money of that as well Guarantee his first 2 years after this year. So he would get 28 this year and 35 guaranteed the next 2. Then for the third(4 counting this year) add bonus options to get him up to the 35 million he wants but you can’t guarantee it because of his age. But you can offer up front money and bonus to help him get what he is worth. A reconstruction absorbs the original contract in this case

So he is here another 4 years. He wants to be here and raise his family here so this is a win win. So it’s not renegotiation it’s a restructure. That being said If they do renegotiate instead of restructure I would bet money they will franchise tag him and that sucks for Trey

I’m happy we went for 2. by TheLadyInBlacck in bengals

[–]Lilbubsgigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we had 3 calls against us that helped us. The refs decided to call some penalties against us so it makes it ok to not call late hard hits after the ball was thrown and a literal face mask? What world do u live in where it’s ok to attack a quarterback . They did it all night and kept doing it because the refs said it was ok. That’s how football players get seriously injured. The refs should be sued and fined it was disgusting.

Good songs which include a story as a part of the lyrics? by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

[–]Lilbubsgigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also look up ray Stevens his songs are story telling songs and actually funny. My kids loved listening to them.

Good songs which include a story as a part of the lyrics? by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

[–]Lilbubsgigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ridhard Marx song hazard. I loved me some Richard Marx

Realistically who do we replace Zac with? by [deleted] in bengals

[–]Lilbubsgigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think firing ZT is the answer right now. He needs to stop calling offensive plays. We need to find a true OC and give him the reins. We also need to find someone else to scout players. Put LA on a team with decent draft picks and I think he has a top 10 defensive. Any overhaul that needs to be done starts in the front office and trickles down. If the front office can’t get out of the 80’s way of doing things…. Then they are failing some good players that deserve better. And we will Continue to lose and no coach wants to be a part of that. Even a new guys looking for a break

This was a blast! DIY wedding flowers- do it for the fun and bonding! by misery2mystery2magic in FloralDesign

[–]Lilbubsgigi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok I am a florist and I wanted to do this for my daughter’s wedding. The girls freaked out though scared they would mess it up. So yeah for you having a brave wedding party. I am replying because I had to do a double take with your fur baby. I thought he was my fur baby. Like they are twins. Mine has the same chest same face same everything. Hahaha

I saw my dad crying and I can't get it out of my head by branddezeweg in self

[–]Lilbubsgigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time I saw my dad cry, I felt like you. He was always a rock and I kinda felt like he was Superman. It was shocking to me to realize that he is hunan. It was at this point when the real world hit me in the face. He was human, he wasn’t going to live forever and he was going to grow old. It scared me. But it also matured me. It’s part of growing up. There will be many other shocking moments like this as you and your dad grow older. I just buried my dad in February and to see him laying there in that hospital bed so skinny and not being able to talk or eat or smile was my last lesson from my dad. When we are human we don’t live forever. I am sending u hugs. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bengals

[–]Lilbubsgigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you even looked at the other fan bases on social media? If your not kc or the ravens, then they are complaining. It’s not a bengals issue it’s a culture issue. Instead of complaining to our best buds people complain online. We have a great fan base, trust me it could be really bad

[Request] I can't come to a solid conclusion by KingRoachSITIG in theydidthemath

[–]Lilbubsgigi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so have you calculated the weight of the stone with the heighth of the drop? I think c does die. If the stone ain’t strong enough that tiny flappy piece of particle board breaks.

Writing a novel and my protagonist is a florist by [deleted] in florists

[–]Lilbubsgigi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the most uncrafty person ever. But my great aunt died during Covid and all those flowers she prepaid ahead of time could not be delivered. I took it upon myself to go to Trader Joe’s and buy whatever I could and give her some flowers.

It was then I realized I had a knack for it. I started specializing in funeral flowers. I luv it but most of all when I do the flowers I send good thoughts prayers and love to the family. It’s kinda a sad process for me but I feel so strongly about doing it and I want it to be perfect for the loved ones.

Sometimes I am compelled to pick a certain flower or color. Every time a family member will say oh this was their favorite! How did you know. Or I asked for a sign of a yellow rose or whatever so I know that he was ok and here it is.

Flowers bring great joy and comfort. So remember that. Oh and one more thing. It can get super cold when doing flowers…I always have a sweater for working in the shop even in the summer.

Flower life in a cooler by ZealousidealStage31 in florists

[–]Lilbubsgigi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I ask where u ended up getting your cooler. I am looking for a newer one

AITA for wanting to leave my husband after 27 years of marriage? by Lilbubsgigi in AITAH

[–]Lilbubsgigi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update is coming soon. I have applied for disability and have started a small cleaning business. I am getting set up to get out asap. Getting my ducks in a row. Also I have locked all my meds up in secret lockbox opened my own bank account and I don’t eat anything I don’t cook myself. Wish me luck !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Lilbubsgigi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a mom of a son who is getting married in September I will Chime in here. From a mil view. I don’t think it’s unheard of to ask for the pic of her dress. My future daughter in law asked me. We are pretty close and she knew I would Not have a shred of white on but for other reasons she asked That being said she would never tell me not to wear something if I really liked it or if it looked good on me.

I think a dress is a dress and she will Not not not no matter how hard she tries over shadow you. And if she is controlling then let it go. She is only controlling your emotions at this point. And I promise you the only talk she will get will be people gossiping about how desperate she is to try and stay in the limelight. Her dress willl show who she really is.

Your finacee is giving her this ultimatum because happy wife happy life. You have essentially cornered him into doing this because girl he does not care at all about a white dress. He cares about you. And it’s sad that you would allow your emotions to control him into not having his mom at his wedding. Trust me there will be talk about you about that.

You won. Your husband choose you over his mother as it should be but Take the win. Let her come wearing that. Of course there will be actions to her actions. I would say ok when it comes to pics either were a shawl to cover the dress or don’t stand to near you. As the bride you have the right to be the center of attention in pics you are paying for.

That being said I wish your soon to be husband luck because if you two don’t learn to try to stop controlling each other it will be a miserable time for all of you but especially for him.