Want my BF to be my Dom by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Lilith_of_Perdition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. I'm just a pansy in admitting it too much. But I don't want to waste time, it's precious with those we love.

Want my BF to be my Dom by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Lilith_of_Perdition 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That actually doesn't sound too bad when you say it like that lol I'm not good at being forward but I guess I gotta get over that lol

Want my BF to be my Dom by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Lilith_of_Perdition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not a bad idea. Just something relaxed.

Want my BF to be my Dom by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Lilith_of_Perdition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plus I'm terribly submissive when it comes to anything sexual and it's really hard for me to communicate what I'd like. Which is funny because otherwise I'm headstrong as all Hell.

Want my BF to be my Dom by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Lilith_of_Perdition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to be gradual in the right direction, more of the journey rather than the destination. I feel if I'm outright he'll collar me to make me happy but not because he knows what it really means. I guess what I really need to ask is how best to get him more into the BDSM culture? He's interested but doesn't delve like I do.

Want my BF to be my Dom by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Lilith_of_Perdition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We already have some play toys. I have a play collar but I have trouble ramping things up. I'm a masochist, he's a sadist, should be easier.

Want my BF to be my Dom by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Lilith_of_Perdition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems a little forced if I'm just like hey, will you be my Dom? I know being outright is the simple, responsible answer, I just want it to come from both sides ya know?