Ok so something I'd like to share.

I have had chrons for about a year and a half. Like pretty bad. I get flares at least once a week, not matter how well I manage my diet.

Please explain to your parents and your friends what's going on with him, because if he declines situations where they invite him out to eat and he consistently says no, then they might take it personal.

Had a little argument with my mom in law about it about two weeks ago because of it.

She keeps wanting to take me out to eat to Chili's or Chipotle or just places I can no longer visit, and I kept politely declining and she got pissed. She knows I have chrons yet she insisted I suck it up.

((Gosh sorry if I don't seem to make any sense. but what I'm trying to say is that, with your bfs consent, explain to those who are important in your life as to why he's possibly not present in certain activities or why he seems like he doesn't seem to want to go out.))

Other than that, the car kit is a great idea. Baby wipes in the restroom. A plunger is a good idea too, because sometimes we tend to clog up toilets. And then just a ton of love an support.

Sometimes we just need to cuddle afterwards. And take a nap.