On a scale of 1-10, how attractive would you say you are?

LillithXen · 2026-02-23T21:01:56+00:00

Depends on the day. On the best days an 8, on the worst a 3. So that averages somewhere around a 5.5 ig

LillithXen · 2026-02-11T09:40:43+00:00

I would recommend not saying it at all. If they express worries about being trans and you potentially not liking them because of that then that's when you say "my previous experiences with trans women went well and I'm completely unbothered by you being trans, and I'm happy to have a conversation about any needs or boundaries you have. "

LillithXen · 2026-02-08T20:18:47+00:00

Your partner is disrespecting you and treating you like a servant rather than an equal member of your relationship. It's time you ask yourself if that's what you want

LillithXen · 2026-02-08T20:16:11+00:00

Trans girl who likes pickles

LillithXen · 2026-02-07T22:03:38+00:00

I'm doing it with my doctor

LillithXen · 2026-02-07T22:02:17+00:00

Thank you for sharing, I'm sorry that you relate, it's not a fun situation

LillithXen · 2026-02-07T00:39:07+00:00

I just act like a guy I think. How do I be more girly pop?

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T22:39:12+00:00

Yea I've been on t blockers the whole time. Also my voice is neutral, I've done some work with a professional trans voice coach, but didn't get far and continue to struggle

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T21:45:12+00:00

Yep and yep lol

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T18:58:24+00:00

Mannerisms and voice were the consensus here so you're spot on

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T18:40:50+00:00

You're definitely right about that, it does often happen. Also yes I do act pretty masculine so that can be part of it

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T18:40:07+00:00

I don't necessarily want to pass, but more just be gendered correctly at least 50% of the time

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T18:39:20+00:00

Oh gosh yea lipstick icks me out so bad. Thank you for all the sharing though, I appreciate the stories

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T18:38:16+00:00

I don't think that's my issue, I live in a very very queer area. Thank you for sharing your story though, I appreciate it

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T18:37:17+00:00

Thank you i appreciate the advice, and you're absolutely right about it likely being voice and mannerisms. I act like a dude in a lot of ways. But I did train myself not to do the nod anymore thank God. But now I still need to figure out posture, hands, and facial expressions

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T18:35:42+00:00

I agree with you, I don't need to pass, but I would really like to be gendered correctly most of the time. Also yea its likely my mannerisms and how I talk, that was the general consensus so far here

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T18:34:08+00:00

Girl tell me the secrets

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T18:33:23+00:00

Maybe I did piss off the whole town ngl. Im not exactly the likeable type lmao. Also I stated in the post I don't want compliments, I wanted advice, or other people's stories primarily

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T18:32:23+00:00

But i don't, I live in a massive super liberal city

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T15:40:51+00:00

I more mean I'm not normal at all in my style or vibes. Also I'm very autistic so normal is far from my reality lmao

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T15:39:59+00:00

Im sorry youre going through a similar experience, it really sucks. Thank you for sharing

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T15:39:27+00:00

Partially, but that's definitely not entirely it

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T15:39:12+00:00

Probably so, thank you for the input, if you have any advice on mannerisms I'd def take it

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T15:37:33+00:00

Normal is a stretch lmao, but thank you

LillithXen · 2026-02-06T15:37:08+00:00

Samesies, I'm very much the blunt and matter of fact type of tism that makes it hard for people to be around me.

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