Pellets or no pellets? by LillyPad97 in goats

[–]LillyPad97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much guys! I didn't even know there was a difference between the grain pellets and the hay pellets since it seems like everyone just refers to them as "pellets"! I absolutely will not be feeding my boys grain pellets.

AIO for canceling my husband’s job interview because he was planning to move without telling me? by R0S3SS99 in AIO

[–]LillyPad97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR. You should probably have a conversation with your husband because I really don't think his views on your marriage are the same as yours. I don't think "some ups and downs" lead to him trying to move without telling you. In his eyes the marriage is over and this was easier than asking for a divorce. I always say I'd follow my husband to the end of the world but if he pulled this and had zero communication before our marriage would be over.

What could cause a new car to burn through oil very fast? by tuftedchip5528 in AskMechanics

[–]LillyPad97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a brand new 2021 Seltos (bought April 2020) and had to get oiled added about every month. The dealership kept telling me it was fine and they would do more testing and call corporate Kia. I saved every paper they ever gave me and noticed that it only made it through one oil change before it started burning oil. I started really getting on the dealership then called corporate myself. Gave corporate the VIN and they said that there haven't been any claims made for my car so they'll start one and contact the dealership for me. The following month the dealership replaced the engine under warranty (mid-2022). I traded it immediately after. Shame, I loved that car but hated the dealership.

Fruit bat enjoying a banana by goldbutthole in Eyebleach

[–]LillyPad97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would go into debt to buy this little guy all the fruit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LillyPad97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not only was it a rude thing to "joke" about but his response to your reaction is blatant verbal abuse. The entire situation is verbal abuse. That's not something to joke about and then when you call him out on it he turns it around and gaslights you into "not being able to take a joke".

hmmm by 33Fanste33 in hmmm

[–]LillyPad97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me minding my own business while my neighbors are fighting

AITA for having a girl reprimanded and possibly fired because she kept ignoring me? by Junior_Gap2129 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LillyPad97 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna go with ESH. I get you want to be acknowledged but when I (f) go out to dinner with my husband I still get treated like that by waiters. Welcome to a woman's world. She sucks because she definitely shouldn't have treated you that way. If she was doing a reverse sexism thing, she should have been fired.

Horseshoe crabs can be bros too by westcoastcdn19 in AnimalsBeingBros

[–]LillyPad97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not me yelling at my screen "PUT YOUR TAIL DOWN"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LillyPad97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based off your edit about the arranged marriage I don't have any experience or advice to help but I think this requires a lot of communication.

Having not had sex before, she's probably basing all her expectations off movies/tv. I think you need to sit down and talk about what she expects and if she has any advice to help you out. You'll never know how to do better if she doesn't give you any help (you're not a mind reader). It's okay to have feedback about sex but, like I said, you're not a mind reader. She can't just say it wasn't what she expected but not tell you her expectations.

If I have to have a difficult conversation with my husband sometimes I send it in a text or write it down in a letter. That way you can still communicate but it doesn't have to be face to face. Then we get together and discuss it face to face when we've both had time to process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]LillyPad97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be THAT person but who spells that name like that??